It hurts....

[misslady7]

I can actually say that I have tried to understand and work things out in this relationship with my boyfriend. I try talking to him and that doesn't work, I try letting him do what he wants to do but then that hurts.

 

My boyfriend and have been together for six months now and he just recently told me he doesn't know how he feels about me, all he can say is that he cares because if he didn't he wouldn't be with me.

 

He has allowed gambling, and playing video games to come between us he pays more attention to those things than he does to me. The intimate part of our relationship seems like it doesn't exist, and honestly that often makes me feel that perhaps he doesn't find me attractive. When I try talking to him about these things he never understands why it bothers me or why I feel the way I do. I try sitting around waiting and hoping that one day he will wake up, and it's really sad because he still doesn't see. He is allowing our relationship to go down the drain and it's only been six months. When I talk to him he sits with a nochalant attitude like nothing matters to him, and then tells me that he does care but he never shows me. He tells me that the way he shows me that he cares is when he takes me oout (which is not often), and I am the kind of girl you don't have to go all out of your make happy, it's the little things that count to me. He spends more time gambling with his friends, and playing video games than he does with me. And it hurts because after all this time he doesn't know how he feels about me, I don't understand.

[justagirliegirl]

I have read all your posts. You seem so unhappy with him. What are you getting out of this relationship?

[JCD]

He doesn't care that much about you imo. If he did he would spend time with you. As of now he's being selfish. You need a more mature guy to be with you.

[Vertex]

Issues like this 6 months in is a bad sign. Sounds like a fundamental incompatibility issue to me -- that, and he seems immature.