Letter to my ex

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Dear my darling ex,

 

In many ways I am upset that it has come to this between us. I do think we both did love each other, but perhaps we were just too immature and young to realize that.

 

Still, I am telling you today, IT IS OVER. Get out of my life and I don't ever want to speak to you again. You can come and get your stuff, pack up your life and leave mine in peace.

 

Yes, I did wrong by you, and you did wrong by me. I am sorry for this, and I hope you are too. I am writing you this letter on a forum where you will never see it, because I want it off my cheast, but there is no point to bring up the past now.

 

You were lovely at times, and I loved you. But, in breaking up and MOVING ON right now I am concentrating on your a**h*** qualities. Those things that make me want to scream at you and hit you accross the head.

 

You were never going to marry me, no matter what you said. If getting pregnant wasn't enough for you, I don't know what was. I am glad I only wasted four years 'waiting' until you were ready. You never would be and none of your lame excuses cut it.

 

I hate giving BJs and I am so glad that I never have to give you them again. They are horrible and the fact that you still CONSTANTLY asked and harrassed me for it, despite the fact that I would end up in tears and pain everytime I gave in, shows me that in that regards you held no respect for me.

 

You are totally selfish when it comes to sex. You lay back and expect everything. Then you have the nerve to complain when I don't feel like it enough or 'want' you.

 

You are looking for a mother, not a girlfriend boy. I am not there to do your washing, your cooking and clean up after you.

 

And darling, now you are sleeping your way through every mail-order, internet girl you can find, I can only offer you one word of advice. Practice safe sex. And enjoy the sex you selfish bastard, because you are never getting anything from me again.

 

Guess what, darling ex? I realized this weekend, that no, it does not all rest in your hands. Sure, if I want to get back with you, then it is up to you and until you 'work out' what you want.

 

But, screw you, I am taking that last option and bit of power you hold over me from you. I don't want to get back with you EVER, so guess what?

 

I am throwing you out of my life. I deleated all those emails you ever sent (although did print out a copy and give them to my friend for safekeeping- we did have SOME good times together), all your text messages, your phone numbers and any other evidence of us. I packed up all those photos, and I WILL NO LONGER LOOK AT THEM AND CRY!

 

Screw you darling ex, breaking up with you was the best thing ever to happen to me.

 

So on with my new life.......

[Violet87]

Yeah from the looks of your letter, the guy does sound like a loser. His loss. I think you did the right thing by breaking it off with him. There are better men out there.