cubbbb Posted July 2, 2006 Posted July 2, 2006 I have been broken up with my ex for over a year, but she just won't let things go. I like to go out to a certain small bar occasionally, and she drives far and out of the way to basically try and torment me. I have asked her on numerous occasions to just leave me alone, and don't come in there. (she never went there before the breakup).. Well, anyway, on to my point. She came in the last couple of times parading her new boyfriend, like he is some trophy, and making sure I see.. I just try and ignore her, but she makes it impossible. She comes up and talks to the people right beside me with full intention of making me hear whatever BS she has to say. I understand the best policy, is to act like it doesn't even bother me, but its hard. Also, her "trophy" boyfriend is just a dog anyway. I've seen him leave with other women after my ex and him started running around together. I felt like introducing myself to this guy when she is there and say something like "Hello, was that your sister you left with the other night?" (even though I know for a fact that it wasn't his sister, unless they have something weird going on! lol I guess the wise thing to do is to just let her get burned by this guy, not let it show that she is ripping my heart up, and try my best to keep a smile on my face when there isn't nothing smiling inside when she is around. By the way, I was the dumper.. After lies, cheating, and just plain craziness I was tired of it. Why does she drive 15 miles out of the way to come in to some small little hole in the wall bar to basically harrass me? (even though there are 5 other places to go within one mile of her house) I don't get the reasoning behind this. It does make me jealous when I see the Ex with other guys (even though I would NEVER get back with her).. I never say anything, but it does always ruin my night. Please, give advice.. It took everything I had last night, not to call her and tell her off.. I don't want to give her that satisfaction, but wow, I have a few things I'd like to tell her! lol
chewy01234 Posted July 2, 2006 Posted July 2, 2006 well...what do you want out of her? Do you want her to live her life seperate from yours? or do you want to make sure she never wants to talk to you again? If thats the case I'd say pretend to fall in love with her then f*** her over and piss her off somehow....that seems to do the trick. Also proposing might scare her off. This may be dumb advice but I'd say make her as mad as possible so getting back with you will be the last thing she wants.
Author cubbbb Posted July 2, 2006 Author Posted July 2, 2006 I just want her to leave me alone, and not throw things in my face. Its never fun to watch your Ex's with other people even if you have no intention of being with them. I just go to this one little bar because its close to my house, and its much safer, and I always have a ride home from someone if i've had a couple too many. There is absolutely no reason that I can think of why she would go out of her way to go there, other than to ruin my night. She seems to take some weird twisted pleasure out of it. Grrrr... and to answer your question, yes, I do want to live separate lives. We can't coexist peacefully in the same surroundings. All my other exes I have no hard feelings or anomosity towards them. Just this one. She's a bad seed.
PeanutHead88 Posted July 3, 2006 Posted July 3, 2006 your ex is pathetic, your being the bigger and stronger one but having broke it off with her, and here she is going out of her way to torment you Go to a different bar, who cares if your going out of your way to not see her, this girl is nuts and you don't need a b*tch who is going to do that, let her drive out there and you not be there, ha. Please go find other places to hang out and if she decideds to follow you get a warrant against her. If thats possible I'm sorry but your the better person here look at all this pathetic stuff she is doing to you!
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