Guest Posted July 2, 2006 Posted July 2, 2006 Hi, I am new to this but have been reading some of the threads and this seems like a good site to get some advice and I could certainly use some. My boyfriend who I have been dating for 3 years recently kinda just dissappeared after a discussion of moving in together, he has always said in the past that he could see us together and that he saw a future with me. Now I brought this up just asking what his toughts were about it and he seem "freaked out" and said it was scary and what if it doesn't work out? I said that I was scared too but I knew that I wanted to be with him and if you don't take a risk, you'll never know. Anyway, long story short, he said he needed to think about what he wanted, well he knew what he wanted he just didn't know how to get there. He said your right after 3 years it's something to sit down and think about, he said he loves me but he doesn't know if he can be around someone that much but can see us living together? HUH, what does that mean. Anyway, that was like 3 1/2 weeks ago and I haven't heard from him since and I didn't know that we were not speaking. I did call and leave a message asking to let me know he was okay and that it wasn't fair to just leave me in a state of worry. He left a message stating that he was okay physically but he wasn't sure where he was mentally and sorry for worrying me! I don't understand, I really don't and I am not quite sure what to think other than he has no respect for me whatsoever.. Does anyone have any opinions on this? Any insight would be much appreciated.
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