Shoestring Posted July 2, 2006 Posted July 2, 2006 Hi all I write my update here about once a month, but 'enjoy' reading other threads - gives me a good insight into what we are up against. My latest is that MM and I are very hot and heavy again since our breakup in April. We started out slowly (once a week and now get together about 3-4 times a week). We haven't been apart, and my worry about 'Jaws' hasn't been there. He still has work contact with her, but we have been inseparable for the last two months. She has offended so many people at work that no one has a nice word to say about her (good to know it wasn't just me!). As you know I transferred and she is no longer my supervisor and I am very happy. Here is the surprize - she has just applied to transfer to another job at the same level. Guess who will be her supervisor? - yep my MM. He has not said much, but I don't think he is very happy about the whole situation, because Jaws has this 'Off/On' switch and she has recently upset him about some comments she made about his son. It will be a very interesting time now as I watch how the two of them work closely together. It is one thing to be 'good friends' and work apart, but to work closely together and take instructions will be another. Jaws has been her own boss in a very powerful position for the last 5 years, and now she is downgrading her position where she will have no power. Makes you wonder why she did it (smug me would like to think she just copied me because she can see how happy I am being away from her. I can understand MM's reluctance to have her working for him). BTW she will have no work contact with me. From my point of view, as much as I enjoy the sex and intimacy, I really think if the affair was ended again, then I will cope a lot better, but MM is the one who seems a lot deeper involved than me. I have to keep nagging him to go home because he just wants to stay with me all the time. Life sure can be strange.
Blind Illusion Posted July 2, 2006 Posted July 2, 2006 Yes, life sure can be strange, that is true. Glad to see that things are going better for you. Weird, that Jaws arranged for a move that seems like a step down.
Author Shoestring Posted July 2, 2006 Author Posted July 2, 2006 Yes, life sure can be strange, that is true. Glad to see that things are going better for you. Weird, that Jaws arranged for a move that seems like a step down. Yes Blind Illusion - that is the $64,000 question!!! Talk at work is she is transferring to a lower position so she can be closer to my MM. Most people I have spoken to (without raising the issue of her and MM being close in the first instance) have volunteered that they have always suspected a 'closeness' between the two - even though it has significantly cooled since MM and I started our affair 8 months ago with the exception of the 3 weeks we were apart when she confronted him about 'the email' he had sent me. I know how he feels about me and how much he wants me, so I am playing it very cool and not putting any pressure on him. I think the old saying of "give them enough rope and they hang themselves" may be very applicable to Jaws.
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