JOSEPHPHILA Posted July 1, 2006 Posted July 1, 2006 Last August A Girl I Have Known For 4 Years-we Mutually Flirted Back And Forth, Came Out And Told Me She Has Always Had A Crush On Me. She Actually Was Shaking When She Told Me. At The Time I Was Afraid It May Be Akward If It Did Not Work Out I Was In A Wierd Time In My Life.(she Is 34- I Am 35)- So We Just Kind Of Hung Out. For The Past 2 Months I Have Been Thinking Alot Of Her. I Actually Bought A Special Book For Her(that Means Alot To Her). . .just As I Was About To Send The Book I Find Out She Just Got Engaged. Last September She Was Not Seeing Anyone. Is There Anything I Can Do?. I Know When I Did Not Follow Through She Was Hurt. Over The Months I Have Come To Realize We Have A Unique Connection. Do I Just Give Up? Please Help
alfagrl Posted July 1, 2006 Posted July 1, 2006 I'm confused. Did you guys not see eachother for a while and you thought about her then? or while you guys 'hung out she found someone else? You said you had stuff going on in your life...does that mean you had a gf?
ashnicole Posted July 1, 2006 Posted July 1, 2006 Let it go. Either you weren't willing to give her what she needed so she found someone else, or you weren't who she really thought you were, so she found someone else. Don't break up what could be a good relationship, just because of your selfish desires.
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