It has been 2 years tonight!

[cheeks1]

I posted a pretty scary breakup 2 years ago. If interested- http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t42205/?highlight=cheeks

 

The story did not really end there. It did get worse for me. I fell into a deep depression and had to see a therapist for about a year. The only way I could get him to leave me alone was to file for a restraining order. Although the CD and coffee he left at my door was very romantic ( he almost got me back), I tried to be strong and I called his wife to tell her about it , and guess what, she said that song he gave me was their wedding song!!!

I still think about him everyday. Unbeliveable. No more pain though. He still works in the same area as I do, so we do drive by each other every now and then, but I always close my eyes. Weird huh? Dangerous too! I have forgiven him. Its the only way to heal. It set me free from all the pain. It took about a year and half . I loved him with all my heart. I just didn't know him. I still love the guy I thought he was. Does that make sense????

I have since reconciled with my husband, we are very happy, and most importantly, a family again. We were in the beginning stages of a divorce at the time. Wow, I just remembered that my MM wanted me to change my name back to my maiden so he gave me $$ for the fee. $300. Maybe I'll send his wife the cash.

If you are hurting, please just remember that this too shall pass...

[bunset]

Thank you for coming back to share that with us.

Yes, it shall pass, and we shall be better for having overcome the pain, too.

Until then, we'll be here for each other.

[ahotmess]

cheeks1: That was a very inspiring post. I am greatful that my R with him has not gotten that far. It seems it would be easier if I found out he were lying. But it sounds like that is not the case. It is just not going to be easy...but worth it I hope.

[Brittanyjean06]

I love hearing stories of passing through the grief! I'll be glad to write about it when I get there

 

Good luck!!!