stronggirl Posted June 30, 2006 Posted June 30, 2006 you know, i was thinking...... i've been living my life for 36 years. there is no way i am going to let someone come into my life for SIX FREAKIN' MONTHS and reak such unstable havoc in my mind..... it just doesn't fly. no way. no how. i am stronger than that. it's silly actually..... if you put it into perspective, it really makes things easier and a lot clearer.
Author stronggirl Posted June 30, 2006 Author Posted June 30, 2006 your right! yeah! so the next time you start pining or feeling depressed, just think......for what? six months of my whole life??? think not.
magichands Posted June 30, 2006 Posted June 30, 2006 yeah! so the next time you start pining or feeling depressed, just think......for what? six months of my whole life??? think not. I don't know... all months might be created equal - but I find there are more memorable, and more forgettable months. What kind of sucks for me, is that when one is in a relationship it is normal to reminisce over the great times - but, otherwise, try not to dwell? Life is a collection of "moments?" Anyway, you seem to have a good thought going there. And you are getting on with living in this moment. Good luck.
Author stronggirl Posted June 30, 2006 Author Posted June 30, 2006 I don't know... all months might be created equal - but I find there are more memorable, and more forgettable months. What kind of sucks for me, is that when one is in a relationship it is normal to reminisce over the great times - but, otherwise, try not to dwell? Life is a collection of "moments?" Anyway, you seem to have a good thought going there. And you are getting on with living in this moment. Good luck. oh you know, don't get me wrong.....i had some of my best most fulfilling moments with my ex...but the reality is, the degree of time to which he was in my life is but a drop in the bucket. there will be someone else out there that i will have more fun with, as well as a satisfying relationship.
magichands Posted July 1, 2006 Posted July 1, 2006 oh you know, don't get me wrong.....i had some of my best most fulfilling moments with my ex...but the reality is, the degree of time to which he was in my life is but a drop in the bucket. there will be someone else out there that i will have more fun with, as well as a satisfying relationship. You're right - it was a drop in the bucket. My take is that one drop of food colouring can turn the whole bucket bright pink (or whatever colour you can relate to). Time isn't a big factor in my book. It's quality not quantity. Anyway - whatever. One of my pet peeves is when someone says "more fun" and "more satisfying" - fun and satisfying, sure. Just leave out the "more" bit. Life doesn't come with any guarantees, and moments are not necessarily made to fade into insignificance. I should congratulate myself on writing such complete and utter shash.
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