spidertush Posted June 30, 2006 Posted June 30, 2006 Ok. So. I'm 18, she's 17. I was seeing this girl for about three months and we went out for about a month a half. I was the typical nice guy, mainly because she told me that all of her past boyfriend were dickheads, so I wanted to be different, something special. I bought her flowers, remembered the 1 month anniversary, took her out to nice dinners, did random romantic things for her, and etc. All of which she loved, said I was the nicest, most amazing boyfriend she had... blah, blah, blah. Well anyway, she broke up with me (over the phone@#!). She didnt really give me a reason. I'm convinced I was too nice, which I was expecting, but hoping the opposite. She basically said "I see you as a best friend instead of a boyfriend". Whatever. She knew I was upset over the phone just because the way I sounded. I wasnt hysterically crying, but there were tears and some anger. She said the whole, can we just be friends deal. I said, "No if we break up, there is no friendship". Well after the phone call ended, she texted me later that night saying "Your a jerk!!!!!"....... Okay? I didn't respond. It's been a week and there has been no communication between us. Oh yea, and before ending the phone call, she said to "call her if I wanted to", which I havent obviously. I'm pretty sure she dumped me for another guy, since she dumped her old boyfriend for me... this is the kind of girl she is. However, she said all of her past boyfriend all became friends with her.. what can i say, im different. Also, I now agree that the break-up was a good thing since I'm going to college in about two months. However, I wouldn't mind there still to be feelings between us, just not on the boyfriend/girlfriend scale. So here are my questions. Should I call her? And if so, how long should I wait? Also she has a concert ticket of mine (on oct. 23rd) that I want back, and she said she would give it back... should I call her just for that? Last but not least, she is having quite serious shoulder surgery July 18th should I send a get-well card? Usually I would without thinking about it, but I just underwent surgery and she has sent nothing. So what do you all think?
Winfield Posted June 30, 2006 Posted June 30, 2006 Let's see... She broke up with you, and subsequently called you a jerk...I think she's made her feelings quite clear to you. Should you call? No. As for the concert ticket, if she returns it, then all's well and good...but if she doesn't, put it down to a "lost cause" experience. She's given you her word that she'll return it - well, you shouldn't need anything more than that. If she doesn't return it though, it will just prove to you the type of girl she is. An expensive mistake? Maybe, but then, time will tell... Should you send her a get well card? Well, since she didn't send one to you when you were going out together, I wouldn't bother. Why put so much into something which clearly is so one-sided (your thinking of her) and isn't going anywhere? She isn't worth pursuing. Good luck!
Author spidertush Posted June 30, 2006 Author Posted June 30, 2006 Yea, I see what your saying. But, I really need the ticket, no way am I going by myself. If she doesnt call within the next month, I def. gotta ask for it back.
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