Guest Posted June 29, 2006 Posted June 29, 2006 I have been dating my boyfriend for the past six years. We are both in college now and we attend different schools that are about an hour apart. He was my first serious relationship and I value what we have. We get along great and we have meshing personalities. But, lately I have seen so many issue surface and I dont know how to react. I think a lot of the issues I saw before but I just didnt want to face them. My biggest problem is I feel like I never come first. Ever since we have been dating wrestling has been the focus of his life. He is very committed to the sport and does it in college. Along with wrestling he works out constantly to keep in tip top shape. He makes time for me in his busy schedule but I feel like he feels inconvienced. Often its just for an hour at night to watch some TV shows. I dont feel appreciated and I feel like I never come first, always second. He eventually wants to coach wrestling and it makes me cringe because I know I will come second to his team. I just wish for once I was first. I just wish he would say, ahh I am not going to practice tonight, lets go out for dinner. I feel like he takes advantage of me because we have been together for so long. When I bring it up he gets mad and doesnt understand where I am coming from. Sometimes I just feel like the we are slowly growing apart. How do I save this relationship? Please HELP!
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