Noise Girl Posted June 29, 2006 Posted June 29, 2006 First post here and looking for some advice. I've been spending time with someone for about a month. We have known and flirted with each other via phone and email for about a year before that. Recently, he pulled a vanishing act for about a week and "forgot" a date we had. He called after about a week; this after i had called once and emailed once with no reply. I emailed after the voicemail he left and let him know that I was hurt. He sent a very nice reply apologizing, telling me he enjoyed spending time with me and asking me to call. I emailed back saying that he should try to call me again. We have been emailing this week, but no call has come in. It's only been about four days. Question is should I wait for a call or give him a call? I keep going back and forth between he would call me if he was really interested and maybe, I should suck up my pride for once and give him a call. Any advice would be so helpful.
Sand&Water Posted June 29, 2006 Posted June 29, 2006 Noise Girl, You've already sucked up your pride by maintaining contact with him and accepting his apology even though he stood you up. With that said, it's totally up to you whether or not you want to call him. However, I think you should let him do the pursuing. Let him call you. Indicate to him, that you are still interested and would like to meet up for a second date. Take control of the situation. If he doesn't do his best on the second date, then you have your answer. Good luck.
Author Noise Girl Posted June 29, 2006 Author Posted June 29, 2006 Thanks Sand&Water. I know that I should wait. I just needed someone to tell me that. Sometimes it's hard to listen to your head when your heart seems to have a mind of its own.
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