precious99 Posted June 29, 2006 Posted June 29, 2006 I have posted on this subject before but I require further help and advice. My bf of six months is not a communicator at all. He rarely if ever discusses his emotions and has great difficulty with any significant conversation. He is physically affectionate (as in holding hands, touching me etc) but even after all of our time together he still has trouble initiating sex or even just fooling around. I am trying to be understanding but I am totally confused. I never know what he wants, feels or thinks. He says that this is just the way that he is and even has stated that this is why all of his other relationships (although never long term) have failed. I am at my wits end. I am absolutely, head over heels in love with him but it is a daily struggle to even just continue in my belief that he feels the same way. What can I do? I am starting to feel insecure in our relationship and even a little resentful - he can feel happy and content because I am always telling him how I feel about him while I am left wondering. I have even tried the not talking thing on my end but it doesn't work - its just damaging our relationship further.
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