Pendawn Posted June 29, 2006 Posted June 29, 2006 My bf and I have been together alomst a year and a half, in all that time he's never said I Love you (I have) however i was working on the assumption that he felt it but had issues with expressing it. However last night whilst doing a silly internet personality quiz, one of the statements was "i fall in love easily" he said that didn't describe him it was "totally the opposite in fact". I put that together with the lack of 3 little words and am now thinking he thinks he's not in love with me. Later that night I jokingly said "Don't fall in love easily, huh? I'll make ya!" and he did a genuine laugh and hugged me. This has left me mightily confused because it's hard for me to belive he's not in love with me - not because i have a massive ego! - because of his actions and words. He is incredibly loving towards me, he initiates a lot of contact, is very physically demonstrative (lots of hugging, kissing, stroking etc). He is always thinking of my needs and wants, and always wants to make sure I am happy. He tells me often how pretty/beatiful/hot I am. He's said things like I'm his saviour, he's my biggest fan, he's always telling his friends how wonderful i am, I have the biggest heart, - I could go on and on about all the wonderful compliments he says expressing how amazing he thinks I am. But vitally he talks about a future, he's said I'm the only women he's ever been able to see a future with, to make him think about marriage, he could search the world over and never find anyone as lovely and me so he's not going to try and that I am everything he could ever want. He feels differently about me than all his past gfs (he's only had 1 other LTR but plenty of short relationships)) So how can a man who tells me regularly that I mean the world to him and he can't imagine his lfie withou me, not be feeling love? What else would be making him say/do all these things? Could it be he has a skewed image of what "love" should be? Could he be in love and not realise it or be in denial? I am sure all the things he does/says with me are genuine, as I catch him looking at me with real adoration. Anyone help me reconcile this confusion?
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