NightsInWhiteSatin Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 Ok, so...it's been NC initiated by me for just almost 3 months now, he's tried doing allsorts to contact me none of which i've responded to...and now i'm over him...and i can say that and i'm 99% out of 100% positive that i am...and the 1% of me which still may have the tiniest soft spot for him is nothing...not even a blip on the scale. (for those who dont know - he dumped me) I've smashed my rose tinted spec's lol. I also have began to have feelings for someone else which is mutal...but we've agreed to be friends for a while and take it slow for my sake so i can be on my own out of a relationship, find myself and get back on the path again...which he was really understanding about and i have that much needed me time to focus on all the different areas of my life that need fixing. Anyway, me and my ex - we share the same mates so there's always an awkwardness to some extent with there being NC between me and the ex....and i did say i'd give friendship between us a go after a while of NC... and up till a while ago i said i never wanted to see him again but now...i dont think i'd mind so much...because it'll mean i get to see all my other friends again that i've not seen/avoided since the breakup....and i dont have to be all chummy with 'him' do i? and i can keep him at a distance and avoid being alone with him by keeping our mutal friends around. I feel alot stronger than i did a while ago and i'm not saying i'm going to contact him right now...i'm thinking of contacting him in mid October which means we won't have seen eachother for just under 7 months or spoken for 6 months and by then i should be even miles more confident and have my life back on track - what do you guys think on it?
KittenMoon Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 WHy are you worrying about this now? Think about it again in Oct and see how you feel.
Author NightsInWhiteSatin Posted June 28, 2006 Author Posted June 28, 2006 WHy are you worrying about this now? Think about it again in Oct and see how you feel. good point KittenMoon - i shall worry about it later!
fabulousgal Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 Well, I went out for the first time with my friends and my ex was there. I handled myself well and stayed distracted. I'm not going to lie, it hurt like a bitch though. I guess it depends on how over it you are. I've accepted the breakup, but I am not over him. I only went bc I had to stand up for myself in a way, and say guess what I am not giving my friends up bc of you slimeball! Oh yeah and see how you feel in October haha, its only June.
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