SweptAway Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 I heard a discussion on the radio this morning which forced me to review my past relationships. I have fallen so hard for the bad boys. I was intensely physcially attracted to them, fell for their lies and was always hurt in the end. But the lust and the butterflies felt fantastic, walking on cloud 9, really turned on by them etc I have never fallen as hard for the good ones. I was physically attracted to them, but moreso turned on by their personalities, intelligence, wit etc though. The feelings were still there, just never as intense, and I wasn't as hurt in these relationships. My question: Does a successful relationship require physical AND personality attraction (does that guy even exist??!) OR can a relationship be just as successful if you are mostly attracted to their personality? (Not that they aren't physically attractive, that aspect just isn't as intense)
Laura_t Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 I'v had relationships wih guys who havn't been so gud in the looks department but they've had really great personality. I got hurt in the end tho because they were quite insecure about when i was going out clubbing and drinking and things
Pink Amulet Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 Damn Laura! Is that you?! Hot No one can say my pictures are raunchy now! Swept away- there is a topic on here called "should nice guys change". Have a read of that. There were a lot of insights in to this topic...
Laura_t Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 yep thats me lol... i wouldn't say it was raunchy lol... ya still hot 2 me hun
Spiderman Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 yep thats me lol... i wouldn't say it was raunchy lol... ya still hot 2 me hun God I love Geordie girls...yooowza!
Spiderman Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 What are Geordie girls? People from Newcastle,UK are affectionately know as Geordie's
Outcast Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 Being addicted to lust is like any other addiction - it'll screw up your life. And as with any other addiction, even if you give it up to take on a good guy, the craving will still be there. I think unless you manage to overcome your addiction to 'bad' boys you'll keep chasing them even if you do marry a nice guy.
whichwayisup Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 yep thats me lol... i wouldn't say it was raunchy lol... ya still hot 2 me hun ha, stay out of the lesbian thread in the water cooler section! (No, I'm not a lesbian, I'm married, but many of the females on LS, wanna have a ONS with another girl. Man, that pic IS hot though!
whichwayisup Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 Part of the badboy attraction is not knowing what happens next...He keeps you on your toes and keeps you guessing to have you interested in him. And remember, it's ALL about HIM. Not you. Most badboys are extremely selfish. Fun, sexy but selfish... You gotta fight the heart/head/attraction thing. If you meet a guy and you feel that INTENSE feeling for - Stop and think. Get to know him abit before falling for him. There ARE amazing men out there who aren't these badboy types of players. You just have to find 'em! And they're hot and sexy too!
Spiderman Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 ha, stay out of the lesbian thread in the water cooler section! (No, I'm not a lesbian, I'm married, but many of the females on LS, wanna have a ONS with another girl. Man, that pic IS hot though! ONS........?
ronnieromance Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 I got here just in time to see that picture...Then I clicked on it and it disappeared. A victim of the the thought police? Or the fact that you're 17, Laura? -R-
Spiderman Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 UNBELIEVABLE!! We want Laura, we want Laura, we want Laura..... Come on Mods, that Avi was far from pornographic, she definitely had panties on, I had a really, really, really, really close look!
alphamale Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 great...another good vs. bad boy thread what is this? like thread #1,200?
j.carsey Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 I have never fallen as hard for the good ones. Maybe you're still growing up, emotionally. I think it has to do with maturity level. The teen girls always fall for the bad boys. That's why teens are an easy target to manipulate into bed
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