lovestruck234 Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 Now, I want all the guys here to be honest with me... I just read a similar thread about a girl who liked this guy that she worked with etc etc. and I would also like to post the question...what do guys really talk about with their mates about chicks? And especially their gf? My bf often goes for motorbike rides with his mates and usually make it an overnight thing. Anyway, so I'm sure the topic of me and/or girls come up in conversations and just wanted to know, your typical bloke, what do they talk about with there mates concerning there gf? He's come back from rides and told me a few funny stories about one of his good mates and his sexual experiences. I'll sit there and laugh with him but often wonder, I wonder what stories he tells his mates about us/me? I'm not daft enough to think that he doesn't say ANYTHING about our sexual relationship, but what sort of detail do guys go into with their friends? This is just out of pure curiosity....let me know fellas....!!
933KJL Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 Like a card carrying guy is ever gonna spill the beans...c'mon. We talk about football and power tools. I promise!
Author lovestruck234 Posted June 28, 2006 Author Posted June 28, 2006 ..... I wasn't born yesterday... No seriously, it's just always pondered in my mind...I really would like to know.... Come on.....
flavius Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 In my experience guys talk in wide circles around sex and our women. We all know what we're saying and what we're talking about, but usually in vague terms. AsXholes (an unfortunately broad category of men) talk in graphic detail. Women on the other hand tell all kinds of stuff we wouldn't think of telling. I'm 43, most of my pals are 33-ish
Author lovestruck234 Posted June 28, 2006 Author Posted June 28, 2006 Women on the other hand tell all kinds of stuff we wouldn't think of telling. I'm not too sure about that....I do, but I don't. You tell your friends, of course, but it depends on the girl, just the same as guys. I have lots of friends who clam up and you barely hear anything about their sexual relationships, whereas others, will tell you EVERYTHING! (Including things you don't want to know). So I guess from what I can make out, guys and girls are pretty much the same on this category. Hmmm....interesting. But I still don't buy it. I've always thought that pretty much all guys tell their mates nearly everything and anything that they do with their girl. I don't know, I'm probably wrong..... Hmmm.....
BrandonBP Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 From my own experience, guys are more likely to tell the other guys about one night stands, especially if the other guys were around when the hookup happened. Guys (unless they're idiots) will not be likely to give many details about sex with someone they care about. On the other hand, I've brought this up quite a few times over the years to various girlfriends and they ALL admitted that women are far more likely to tell their girlfriends graphic details about sex with their partners. I don't personally kiss and tell. Even if it's my best friend that's asking me, I just smile, shrug my shoulders, and let him wonder.
Author lovestruck234 Posted June 28, 2006 Author Posted June 28, 2006 Ohhhh...ok..yeah, that makes sense... Well, like I said, some girls are different. I don't really like to discuss it with my friends, I'll tell them what they want to hear, but I don't really like going into detail, especially now I'm with a long-term guy, it's a bit more personal... But that's good to know...now that I've heard it from a few blokes, I don't reckon my bf would give away too much, either.. Was just a bit curious, that's all.... If any other guys want to contribute...feel free!
laRubiaBonita Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 well, as a "guys-guy...whos a chic" ....... the only time i divulge personal...aka sex, realtionships with a guy is when there is a relationship problem...... otherwise, i say something like' oh yeah, me and A are great!" plus... i never tell any one person everything about myself, i tell different friends just enough about myself as needed. i have trust issues.
j.carsey Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 Now, I want all the guys here to be honest with me... I think guys talk a lot less than you think. In all the times I've been hanging out with my buddies, very rarely has there been anything graphic or medically detailed about what we have been doing. And most of us are very sexual, slightly dirty guys. My girlfriend asked me to not brag about ... something she liked doing for me, and I never mentioned it to anybody. I do not talk with my guy friends about how tight a girl is, shaved or not, etc. On the other hand I have known girls as delicate as flowers, talk with their female friends about their sex toys, size and appearance of penises, sex positions. I was actually glad to find out they are not as shy about sex as I thought, but really girls talk way more than guys.
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