nevruz Posted June 27, 2006 Posted June 27, 2006 [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Hi Friends,[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana][/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]We were together for nearly 4 years. She was very clingy to me, and devoted. I mean calling every five minutes… I felt miserable always, and started to lose my love towards her. I felt like she was trying to control me. I started to push her away, and things went wrong.. So I broke it off 4 months ago..without me even realizing it. I found comfort in a new girl, and suddenly left her. She then committed suicide and cut her both wrists but did not die.Now she is recovered.She then got into a relationship with another guy just for the sake of revenge and had sexual intercourse which she had told me . then, the roles were reversed. . I couldnt believe how much I missed her so I left my new girlfriend. I couldnt eat or sleep and I had this bad feeling in my stomach and in my heart.I found myself clinging to her, but I knew I couldn't. I wanted to play it cool, but I was so messed up..I couldn't do the things I once loved to do.Now we are together again but in different cities. She now says that she loves me but she doesn't trust me.Our phone calls are quite unsteady.She is very aggresive mostly.I am stil telling her that I love her and nothing has changed on my side.[/FONT][/COLOR][COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] I am mostly unwavering, in however she behaves you know unconditional love.Is it true approach?e g.She says she will call me in half an hour but she wont.I don’t want to question how she acts so as not to fuel her insecurity.When she call me I act as if nothing has happened.Is it right?I hope…..and I think If I am still she will soon come to see this as safe territory, and she will relax and be herself.Is that the right approach?Please help me I love her and want to get her back.[/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana][/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana][/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Love [/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana]Nevruz[/FONT][/COLOR][COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana][/FONT][/COLOR] [COLOR=black][FONT=Verdana] [/FONT][/COLOR]
Guest Posted June 27, 2006 Posted June 27, 2006 OMG... my heart breaks for you. I dont know what to say, but hang in there
rkman Posted June 27, 2006 Posted June 27, 2006 Insane people have a tendency to make the sane, insane.
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