Smung Posted June 27, 2006 Posted June 27, 2006 Hope to get some opinions here. My ex came over and we talked about reconciliation, well I talked about reconciliation. She basically kept to the line of “I love you, but not romantically”. One thing she did talk about that is bugging me is that she had given me a machine for my business that is spendy. At the time and over emails she said it was a “severance package”. Last week she then sends me an email “humblely (her words asking for it back” her reason was that she wanted to use the profits to pay me back money I lent her to finalize her divorce. She wants forgiveness for the dept and two beds that I bought for the kids. She wrote up a little trade agreement. Now I am not obligated to honer this as she gave me the piece of equipment to begin with. I have never asked for anything I have her back and wouldn’t. I find myself feeling guilty now. I know her kids are sleeping on the floor and she could use the beds more than I could. But dang it, I feel used and manipulated. I just don’t know what I should do. Give them the beds? Continue NC? It’s been 6 days. Anyone have a view on this that could help me decide? I want to do the right thing but I fear if give the beds and forgive the dept she will be assured that she is able to use my feelings against me. Please help!
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