kryptoknight Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 Here's my story....I met my friend's sister last 5 months ago with other close friends. WE never really hangout and if I see her again shes always with her sister which is a close friend of mine. I will call my friends sister KC. After I met KC I know that shes a nice girl and Im kinda interested in her. I never really showed any interest whenever KC is with her sister and we all hangout like bowling and movies. I few months passed, I saw her profiles online and I descided to add her under my friends list since I know her already. We exchanged a few messages but it didn't really clicked and we both stopped exchanging messages online. Probably Im keeping my distance and I don't want her to know that Im interested in her and also I don't want KC's sister to know. The reason is I don't want to ruin the friendship between me and KC's sister just incase things didn't work out between me and KC. My KC's sister is getting married soon and they held a social party last night. I was helping them set up everything and sell liquior tix. Offcourse everybody was there,,,KC's friends were there including her ex bf. I made a few friendly gestures and flirty acts towards KC whenever we get a chance to talk to each other and work together during the social. Her female friend showed up at the social and to my surprise, KC aproached me and asked my age because her friend is interested in me. After a few minutes KC asked me again if I want her friends phone number. I didn't said nope, but instead I said " I want your number" ...She just smiled and insistingly asked again if I want her friend's number. A few more hours passed and I was going around trying to sell tickets for the social raffle draw. KC, KC's sister and a few friends were dancing when I passed by and I called KC's sister because someone was looking for her. KC asked me to dance but I told her I will dance later when Im not busy. A few more hours passed by and KC asked me again to dance and the rest of the guys which are close friend of mine. Again I didn't because I didn't like the song and Im not really a dance floor guy. Another hour passed and I was stuck being a door person checking people comming in for social and liquior tickets. KC suddenly approached me and tellling me that theres one guy that oftens stare at her. I told her she looks hot that night thats why that guy was staring at her. After a few min passed by she approached me again and this time she pulled me out infront of her sister and close friends and asked me to dance. The song was playing at that moment was a slow love song which are mostly for couples and love birds. I danced with her eventho I felt kinda shy and flattered. WE danced so close to each other and I asked her if it's ok for her sis to see both of us danced like that...She said she already asked her sis about that and it's ok....She rested her forehead a few times on my chest and after we finnished dancing it felt weird cuz I know that my friends will talk about us. Also I know that one of my guy friend is also interested in KC. The guy friend who is interested in asking KC out was already got shut down last time because KC said it feels werid to date her sister's friends and most of KC sister;s friends are old guys. Even tho Im interested in asking KC out I never took the initiative and chance because a close friend already got shut down from asking her out. Now my question is could it be that KC was just using me at that time becuase her ex bf was there? I like her and Im interested in her but should I take a risk of asking her out? I want to ask her out but not in the obvious way like formal date but as a friendly date, but Im also worried that maybe she might be just using me at that time to get her ex bf jealous. Sorry for the long story...I need an advice about this situation....thanks.
Author kryptoknight Posted June 27, 2006 Author Posted June 27, 2006 Anyone have been into this situation before?
Laura_t Posted June 28, 2006 Posted June 28, 2006 well... i'v sorta been in the same situation... i used 2 have a great friend called glen, i had new him since i was about 7 years old. I used 2 regularly go round 2 his house and we used 2 chat n have a laugh together. One day we went out for something to do and wen we got back ot his we kissed and he asked me out... i said yes but a few hours later he said he didn't want it to happen. This may have been just because he had jsut split up with his ex but i know it never cahnged anything between us... apart from when he got a new girlfriend a week after things happened. I got quite jelous and i didn't really like her so eventually i stopped going round.... i no this may not help with your situation but it's sorta the same thing. I think u should jsut giv it a go and see waht the outcome is... she my have been genuine in askin you to dance because she really liked you too.
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