joseyposie Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 well I used to live in dallas where me and my exboyfriend lived but then when i left him i moved back to houston. well it has been 6 yrs and i am still heartbroken and not over my last relationship( haven't been lucky and haven't dated since the last relationship so i am just jealous that after 6 yrs i broke up with him and after 4 mths he found someone else and married them ) but want to move back to dallas. dallas has alot of bad and good memories of the past relationship and yet i have alot of friends there and i want to be far away from my codependant mom and dad. also in houston i have alot of bad memories and no friends and very lonely. in houston all i feel like is a ghost nobody even notices me. i am 39 yrs old 5ft 2 and 240 lbs. i work 48 hrs a week in the airport. what would u do?
JadeStar Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 Heres just a suggestion, why not just start fresh. Maybe move to a totally different place if thats a workable situation. You might want to try and get out more and meet new people. If you feel you are over weight or don't feel good about yourself in general, perhaps join a gym. You could meet friends at a gym. I'm sorry you are still struggling with your last relationship. Have you gone to counseling for help on how to deal with or let go of that? Jade
stillhere Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 This is what i would do, move back to Dallas where you have friends, even though there are some bad memories. Don't dwell on them, have your friends take you out, then you may meet someone who will help you create new memories. Don't dwell on this guy, don't give him the satisfaction. He has clearly moved on, and now you need to do the same. Life is about change, and you will meet someone that will make you forget all about the "other" guy.
dgiirl Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 I'm kind of in the same situation. I moved to where I am to be with my husband. Now that we're getting divorced, I'm moving back home. The only catch is, I really never had any friends in my current city, and have much more friends back home. I think being closer to friends is really important. Atleast I hope it will get me back to my confident self. If these are really your friends, and do not associate with your ex at all, I think moving back to Dallas will be good for you. It really is hard to make friends, so if you have them in Dallas, then go back!
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