Pantero Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 NC'd the ex for 4 months after she dumped me. We share mutual friends. Saw her last Friday at a party for the first time in 4 months. We both said "hi", and I kept my distance. She emails me today congradulating me on graduating the cop academy. I say thanks, and since the rest of our mutual friends were invited to the graduation, I mentioned she could show up with them if she wanted (not my idea...my friend's idea of it being the "gentleman" thing to do...). She refuses, as I suspected and says some sort of excuse of how she's got a model shoot that night after work, etc. etc. and then asks what my future plans are. I responded back with "good luck with the modelling endeavor". That's it. This whole thing pisses me off...I dunno if I shoula just ignored the emails.
Pink Amulet Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 I'm not sure... but I think you should stop now... I also think she is lying to make you think "omg- my hot ex is having a hot photo shoot". She is probably just staying at home, happy thinking you believe she is flaunting it in front of a camera instead of supporting you. I think you did the right thing. It was tasteful response, but still full of all the cynisism necessary for the contextual meaning. So definitely leave it at that. You have come out on top. P.S a cop hey my vice- you can start emailing me if you like
Author Pantero Posted June 26, 2006 Author Posted June 26, 2006 I'm not sure... but I think you should stop now... I also think she is lying to make you think "omg- my hot ex is having a hot photo shoot". She is probably just staying at home, happy thinking you believe she is flaunting it in front of a camera instead of supporting you. I think you did the right thing. It was tasteful response, but still full of all the cynisism necessary for the contextual meaning. So definitely leave it at that. You have come out on top. P.S a cop hey my vice- you can start emailing me if you like LOL Yeah, she's always wanted to do that. So I guess, she finally got around to it. But, this is just like everyone else who posts here...we do so well with NC, and then the minute they contact us - it's all back to square one.
silentcharon Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 NC'd the ex for 4 months after she dumped me. We share mutual friends. Saw her last Friday at a party for the first time in 4 months. We both said "hi", and I kept my distance. She emails me today congradulating me on graduating the cop academy. I say thanks, and since the rest of our mutual friends were invited to the graduation, I mentioned she could show up with them if she wanted (not my idea...my friend's idea of it being the "gentleman" thing to do...). She refuses, as I suspected and says some sort of excuse of how she's got a model shoot that night after work, etc. etc. and then asks what my future plans are. I responded back with "good luck with the modelling endeavor". That's it. This whole thing pisses me off...I dunno if I shoula just ignored the emails. Yes... you should have said thanks, and left it at that.
lostinyouth Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 You seem to be doing very well for yourself. I am trying to remain friends with my soon to be ex, I don't know if that is a possibility for you. But you are both adults and should be able to act like it. Good luck.
Diver012 Posted June 27, 2006 Posted June 27, 2006 Sometimes its best for to people just to move on. Theres nothing wrong with that at all. I really dont think its juvenile to say, I can't be your friend...
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