girl6 Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 i was once a situation werei was in love with amarried man and all go out of it was a couple of nuts and and broken heart at first he was not married then after about a couple of months he got married but me being stupid i still was with him i was in love with him then one time he tried to sleep with my friend i was still with him being stupid and in love but when hurricane katrina seperated us i learned alot and would never do it again if only he know that still hurt tell this day and i wish he could feel my pain but u know what it's good for me because i should have not messed with a married man i got what deserved and not mentioned he is still cheating on his wife and not with me only if she knew she would be smiling like she do and he was my virgin breaker my first and it will be like that for long time until i'm ready i just he could feel would i feel what i'm feeling i still love him and i still think about him at not sometimes i wish he was here with me that just me still being in love i sometimes i wish would have never meet him but i did so just have to take my lick
bunset Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 girl, No one deserves to feel bad just because they fell in love with the wrong person! Not even if their actions are considered wrong... You MUST now stop beating yourself up and look around. Look around at many of us at LS... We came here because we couldn't find other people who were going throught the same agony we were going through. We felt alone and afraid of it. Look around... you're not alone. It's happened to the best of us! and guess what, our MM were/are perfect for us at the time, too! But it shows many of us that it's not unique! In turn it allows us to open up and see that we should be able to find what we need when we need it too, not just the right one at the wrong time, or the wrong one at the right time. The universe is in balance, so, logically, for each of us, there is a right SOMETHING at the right time. Look for it, watch for it, prepare for it.... just don't close yourself to the idea that it has to be a man/relationship. It could be something else. Until you stop thinking that there is only one person that can fulfill you, just when you want it, he/she will be elusive. There IS more than this!
whichwayisup Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 Make the decision RIGHT NOW to stop thinking of him. Sounds like he isn't in your life much anymore...The fact too, he got married anyway, while messing around with you before shows his character...He's cheating on his new wife now, so again, it shows what sort of man he is... You deserve better, so don't let yourself feel anything for him! He isn't worthy of your thoughts!
RealityCheck Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 I'm with Bunset..... NO one deserves to feel bad for falling in love with the wrong person! I understand how deeply you hurt, we all do! Understand, this is not reason enough to feel bad about yourself.
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