Guest Posted June 24, 2006 Posted June 24, 2006 i dont know what he wants from me...we broke up two months ago...he has a girlfriend... last week he sent me a message on myspace that he likes my new pics.....then he commented my blog.....and today again he commented my blog.... it's not really about what he wrote (if he's girlffriend sees it she would be pissed anyway)....but why...why after let's say two months of nc he is doing it ?
JDREW311 Posted June 24, 2006 Posted June 24, 2006 Just to keep you there and make you think. Some guys show just enough interest to keep the girl from completely fogetting about them, just incase they want you back some day.
Winfield Posted June 24, 2006 Posted June 24, 2006 i dont know what he wants from me...we broke up two months ago...he has a girlfriend... last week he sent me a message on myspace that he likes my new pics.....then he commented my blog.....and today again he commented my blog.... it's not really about what he wrote (if he's girlffriend sees it she would be pissed anyway)....but why...why after let's say two months of nc he is doing it ? Just count yourself lucky you're not his current girlfriend...because who else from his past does he still keep in contact with? At least by him doing this, it gives you an idea of what he's really like, and how committed he'd be in a relationship... So, chin up - even though it may not feel like it just now, you've got the upper hand!
915chels Posted June 25, 2006 Posted June 25, 2006 Well i think he just doesnt want you to forget about him that is bout the same thing my ex is doin but he calls my cell 24-7 askin how i am doin...well i think he may still have feelings for ya!!!!!
Returning Posted June 25, 2006 Posted June 25, 2006 girl, you must be a helluva girl; be safe in that knowledge. If he's bein a a**hole you're well out. He may be cool, I don't know; if he's with someone else and he's hitting on you......what is anyone supposed to say? you're cool: he's a big headed idiot. In all these threads no ones said if little head is controling big head, wtf! blam him for a knobhead.
lilbo Posted June 25, 2006 Posted June 25, 2006 If he has a girlfriend you can be the one to step up and continue the NC. If you start talking to him in a non right way you are just as bad as him imo. Always I believe you should look at these kinds of situations from all points of view, especially in his girlfriends point of view... If you had a man that was being in contact with his ex how would you feel about it?
Guest Posted June 25, 2006 Posted June 25, 2006 (i started the thread) who broke up with who? he broke up with me...cause he said he fell out of love anf that we were too different... she is more like him...and i dont really care how she feels cause we kind of broke it off because of her...maybe he didnt leave me for her (we had problems earlier) but she was doing everything to appear more cool than i am...and when he was single he became his best friend and later girlfriend... i just dont know what to think when he starts messaging me like out of the blue
933KJL Posted June 25, 2006 Posted June 25, 2006 If you are wierded out about him reading your blog--stop blogging. Hey girl, the Internet is a wonderful place, but is is nowhere close to private. Anything you put out there is fair game. Did you rant about your employer? Your next one may know about it? Did you get away with copying a term paper in high school and mention it? Don't be surprised if your college admissions officer is aware of that? Locally, there were some kids who beat up another kid pretty badly. Of course one of them told a friend who ultimately put it in myspace and --- you guessed it--the police read them too--made it REAL easy to crack the case. I know it is not on your topic, but it is a free world out there and a dangerous one if you are not careful. Google your email addy, your myspace identity, see what you come up with.
justagirliegirl Posted June 25, 2006 Posted June 25, 2006 Doesn't he have to be on your friends list to be able to post comments to your myspace? Just delete him and block him. Problem solved.
Guest Posted June 25, 2006 Posted June 25, 2006 (i started this thread) Doesn't he have to be on your friends list to be able to post comments to your myspace? Just delete him and block him. Problem solved. his not my friend on myspace. He doesnt have to be one to comment my blog or send me a hidden message. and it's not that i shouldnt wright a blog or something...i can do whatever. the problem is that he's posting comments but he was the one who left and didnt call me, and fell out of love.... it's not that i dont want him to read it, i dont care. i dont write important stuff there...mostly funny short stories my point is what he might think now? why he started being interested in me lately?
Guest Posted July 2, 2006 Posted July 2, 2006 girl, you must be a helluva girl; be safe in that knowledge. If he's bein a a**hole you're well out. He may be cool, I don't know; if he's with someone else and he's hitting on you......what is anyone supposed to say? you're cool: he's a big headed idiot. In all these threads no ones said if little head is controling big head, wtf! blam him for a knobhead. ok, so now tell me how to get him back.... or how to make him want me.... i just feel like i cannot close that chapter yet...even though i moved on, started talking to other guys, took good care of myself etc...and lately he invited me to be his friend on his music space (she got pissed for sure)... so what to do now?
Pink Amulet Posted July 2, 2006 Posted July 2, 2006 Why do you publish a blog in the first place? Why not? Guest- You should not have to stop blogging because of him. I think he is still thinking about you. The temptaion of knowing he has access to what you are doing in his life and not being able to resist tells me he doesn't know of the LS "no contact" rule. This includes checking their blogs
lizzieTM Posted July 3, 2006 Posted July 3, 2006 My ex does that same to me, he deleted the pics of me and him off his myspace and has been leaving comments to other girls (not that ive been looking haha) but he calls me up everyso often just to "chat" and IMs me when hes online its starting to really wind me up now, at first i liked the fact he kept in touch but pffft. He's only doing it in my eyes, same for you to keep things a possibilty and do you really want to be with someone whos like that even tho he has a gf? Men are total idiots! (in my experience)
Buttaflyy Posted July 3, 2006 Posted July 3, 2006 What is he saying? Maybe this is being blown out of proportion. I used to note my ex, w/o wanting to get back or be malicious. Granted, it was quite a while after we broke-up. I'm the type who can be friends as long as the breakup wasn't too nasty. I sincerely wanted to just say hi. Could this be?
Guest Posted July 3, 2006 Posted July 3, 2006 My ex does that same to me, he deleted the pics of me and him off his myspace and has been leaving comments to other girls (not that ive been looking haha) but he calls me up everyso often just to "chat" and IMs me when hes online its starting to really wind me up now, at first i liked the fact he kept in touch but pffft. He's only doing it in my eyes, same for you to keep things a possibilty and do you really want to be with someone whos like that even tho he has a gf? Men are total idiots! (in my experience) i dont really know if i want that ...but for sure i want this girl to feel insecure.... i think she already is but i want her to be hurt like i was because of her... i know he's an idiot...but i still have feelings for him.... it was kind of my fault too... i was too clingy and didnt really know how real relationship should looks like...i read a lot of treads here..i think now i have better knowledge
Guest Posted July 3, 2006 Posted July 3, 2006 What is he saying? Maybe this is being blown out of proportion. I used to note my ex, w/o wanting to get back or be malicious. Granted, it was quite a while after we broke-up. I'm the type who can be friends as long as the breakup wasn't too nasty. I sincerely wanted to just say hi. Could this be? doesnt really matter what he's saying.... everybody can see what he wrote, even his girl.... i think they have problems anyway..and the truth is: if he really cares about her why he's doing something that will hurt her? .... and maybe i wasnt perferct for him, but for the first 3 months we had a blast together...and they are dating like 2 months and he was "in relationship" only for a week ....and she's changing "in relationship" to "single" every other day...it's soo funny watching it
Buttaflyy Posted July 4, 2006 Posted July 4, 2006 doesnt really matter what he's saying.... everybody can see what he wrote, even his girl.... i think they have problems anyway..and the truth is: if he really cares about her why he's doing something that will hurt her? .... and maybe i wasnt perferct for him, but for the first 3 months we had a blast together...and they are dating like 2 months and he was "in relationship" only for a week ....and she's changing "in relationship" to "single" every other day...it's soo funny watching it I just don't see what the big deal is if he isn't saying anything "incriminating". Why is his new gf upset because he comments your blog? Glad you can get a kick out of it though.
Guest Posted July 4, 2006 Posted July 4, 2006 I just don't see what the big deal is if he isn't saying anything "incriminating". Why is his new gf upset because he comments your blog? Glad you can get a kick out of it though. when i wrote blog about something that happened when we were still together (not about us though) ...he commented that he remebers when that happened.... or a comment that he thought that he can spend whole summer with me .... and then he opened a music profile and he onvited me to be his friend so i aproved it (because of her)... a think this is what pissed her off
lizzieTM Posted July 4, 2006 Posted July 4, 2006 I just wanted to say a little something about Myspace, its great for keeping tabs on ex's and their current girlfriends and in my case his ex (the reason why he split with me) BUT i hate been able to access it 'cos im still not completley over things with him. HOWEVER i do like to post bulletins and comments on friends profiles that i know he will read just to make him think that things are great in my life, and that he's not in on it. Its the perfect place for you to get your revenge on his new gf, and he's playing right into your hands if he's the one leaving you comments. He cant be happy with his current gf and to post comments on your profile means he must have been looking on it... what a boost to your ego eh? haha. Hope your feeling better about things.
Buttaflyy Posted July 4, 2006 Posted July 4, 2006 when i wrote blog about something that happened when we were still together (not about us though) ...he commented that he remebers when that happened.... or a comment that he thought that he can spend whole summer with me .... and then he opened a music profile and he onvited me to be his friend so i aproved it (because of her)... a think this is what pissed her off Still sounds innocent to me.
Guest Posted July 5, 2006 Posted July 5, 2006 Still sounds innocent to me. me and his new girl had a little chitchat right after my break up... i send her a message that she should respect other people relationships... so i dont think she's happy now seeing him sending me comments... maybe comments are innocent but if he cares about her he shouldnt do it...
Guest Posted July 5, 2006 Posted July 5, 2006 I just wanted to say a little something about Myspace, its great for keeping tabs on ex's and their current girlfriends and in my case his ex (the reason why he split with me) BUT i hate been able to access it 'cos im still not completley over things with him. HOWEVER i do like to post bulletins and comments on friends profiles that i know he will read just to make him think that things are great in my life, and that he's not in on it. Its the perfect place for you to get your revenge on his new gf, and he's playing right into your hands if he's the one leaving you comments. He cant be happy with his current gf and to post comments on your profile means he must have been looking on it... what a boost to your ego eh? haha. Hope your feeling better about things. the guestion is " should i try to talk to him too? or should i wait till he intitiate it? .... i dont know if in that stage nc is needed?
Buttaflyy Posted July 5, 2006 Posted July 5, 2006 me and his new girl had a little chitchat right after my break up... i send her a message that she should respect other people relationships... so i dont think she's happy now seeing him sending me comments... maybe comments are innocent but if he cares about her he shouldnt do it... Ok, so there was a bit of drama there between you and she. Still, I am happy that it worked out for you.
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