dancestar2003 Posted June 24, 2006 Posted June 24, 2006 so basically ive known my current boyfriend for 3 years...we've been dating for 5 months this time but its our 2nd time dating...so we had sex and it was a big thing for me that he didnt tell people from our school and he promised me he wouldnt tell anybody..but recently i found out tat he told a whole bunch of ppl..and then a friend of mine mentioned that he mite be just using me bcuz of the way he talks about me...and i was readin previous emails and in the surveys he would always talk about my looks and never about me...he didnt even no my birthday =| and whenever im trying to make plans he just wants to go somewhere where we can have sex..its like hes a completely different person...i dont no what to do..is this just a phase?or is he just dating me to get me in bed? plz help me =(
tikigods Posted June 24, 2006 Posted June 24, 2006 He is using you for sex, which it seems you are very willing to give. I suggest getting to know him before you give it up the next time, if he doesn't seem intrested in knowing you beyond sex, then dump him and find someone that is
MarnieGirl Posted June 24, 2006 Posted June 24, 2006 how old are you? at some ages (many) it is not uncommon for guys whose girlfriends give it up to keep looking for more where that came from, nor is it uncommon for him to talk about it to his friends. however, at any age, if this is not acceptable to you, you have the option of not having sex with him and seeing if he sticks around (good luck) or not tolerating a behaviour you disagree with and ending it with him.
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