UnknowingOW Posted June 24, 2006 Posted June 24, 2006 So here I am earlier tonight responding to LS threads. Trying like hell to think of the MM, who of coursed ping'd me again today and started up a chat..NC day 1 all over again....ERRRR. Feeling ok...still on the high from the chat today, but wishing like hell it would all stop. And WT*?? This younger man 9-years or so, that I went out with while at my clients last month calls me and says..."are you here or are you home, because I would love to go out tonight." I went out with him and had a great time. He's funny, intelligent, SINGLE, and we click. I had 2-dates with him while I was there. Now I am WISHING I was there just to keep my mind off of MM and have a good time (no pun intended) with this guy. The good news is, I'm going to go out with him when I get back. He's really funny and makes me laugh.
movinon05 Posted June 24, 2006 Posted June 24, 2006 Good good news. Just because I've slipped tonight, don't think its not possible to go on.
RealityCheck Posted June 24, 2006 Posted June 24, 2006 So here I am earlier tonight responding to LS threads. Trying like hell to think of the MM, who of coursed ping'd me again today and started up a chat..NC day 1 all over again....ERRRR. Feeling ok...still on the high from the chat today, but wishing like hell it would all stop. And WT*?? This younger man 9-years or so, that I went out with while at my clients last month calls me and says..."are you here or are you home, because I would love to go out tonight." I went out with him and had a great time. He's funny, intelligent, SINGLE, and we click. I had 2-dates with him while I was there. Now I am WISHING I was there just to keep my mind off of MM and have a good time (no pun intended) with this guy. The good news is, I'm going to go out with him when I get back. He's really funny and makes me laugh. Excellent! And; you know, I am really enjoying your posts and response to others! You definately have it going on! Welcome aboard! Cheers!
Author UnknowingOW Posted June 24, 2006 Author Posted June 24, 2006 Good good news. Just because I've slipped tonight, don't think its not possible to go on. You did NOT slip...you are having a moment as I like to call it. EVERYONE has momets. WA was right...you will get through this, but don't call him. I'm pretty grateful that my MM rarely call each other. That would make it worse then it already is.
Author UnknowingOW Posted June 24, 2006 Author Posted June 24, 2006 Excellent! And; you know, I am really enjoying your posts and response to others! You definately have it going on! Welcome aboard! Cheers! Thank you...I only write what I believe. I think this writing is therapeutic so I write and write and write. Plus, I like to see other's points of view regarding the issue since I know of no one personally in this situation. LS is a great sounding board for me to get through this stuff. Or it's just the analyst in me at work as usual...lol What's funny about becoming the OW, you really find out who your friends are...thankfully my friends know and love me still. Only two of them became a bit odd about the topic. The first compared my MM's lying to child molestation...I told her she two issues are mutually independent and could not be same category of deceit. The 2nd said, "it seems you only attract men which hurt you."...well wasn't that a academic conclusion!!! The 1st is church goers. The 2nd has a Ph.d in psychology...go figure. And YES! I am psyched about my call and STB date...who wouldn't be if they were getting through all this stuff! Thanks again Ladies!
RealityCheck Posted June 24, 2006 Posted June 24, 2006 Thank you...I only write what I believe. I think this writing is therapeutic so I write and write and write. Plus, I like to see other's points of view regarding the issue since I know of no one personally in this situation. LS is a great sounding board for me to get through this stuff. Or it's just the analyst in me at work as usual...lol What's funny about becoming the OW, you really find out who your friends are...thankfully my friends know and love me still. Only two of them became a bit odd about the topic. The first compared my MM's lying to child molestation...I told her she two issues are mutually independent and could not be same category of deceit. The 2nd said, "it seems you only attract men which hurt you."...well wasn't that a academic conclusion!!! The 1st is church goers. The 2nd has a Ph.d in psychology...go figure. And YES! I am psyched about my call and STB date...who wouldn't be if they were getting through all this stuff! Thanks again Ladies! My family and friends know my story. Never have they judged me! I am truly blessed with having people like that in my life. Funny thing is, I am a "Writer" that's what I do for a living. Established Published, Writer/Author. However when it is not work related I do get lazy. No time for editing, I can care less about spelling, grammer, punctuation that sort of thing. Just like a Doctor is his worst patient and a ShoeMaker wears no shoes....lol Anyway, I adore your objective opinions. You opinions are refreshing and very eloquently written. I wish you all the love, peace and happiness in your walk through what is so complicated. Only one who has actually lived it and experienced it can truly understand. The OW's here are open minded because of their experience and are fabulous, heart warming human beings in every regard. We are here for you anytime.
bunset Posted June 24, 2006 Posted June 24, 2006 Yes, sometimes we do get lucky and find the right people to be around! At least here we know we are all human, and can accept that in others. Ironic how a charcater trait that got us into a painful situation can bring us out it too!
Author UnknowingOW Posted June 24, 2006 Author Posted June 24, 2006 Funny thing is, I am a "Writer" that's what I do for a living.Established Published, Writer/Author. However when it is not work related I do get lazy. No time for editing, I can care less about spelling, grammer, punctuation that sort of thing. Just like a Doctor is his worst patient and a ShoeMaker wears no shoes....lol Anyway, I adore your objective opinions. You opinions are refreshing and very eloquently written. quote] RC you don't know how much the above statement means to me. I was smiling from ear-to-ear. I called my mom first thing this morning and told her what you stated, and how proud I felt that someone actually thought my writing, was you put it, "very eloquently written." THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU...you made my day.
movinon05 Posted June 24, 2006 Posted June 24, 2006 Let me add my admiration of you!! Wholeheartedly.!
Author UnknowingOW Posted June 24, 2006 Author Posted June 24, 2006 Let me add my admiration of you!! Wholeheartedly.! You are wonderful! I hope you are feeling better this am/afteroon.
movinon05 Posted June 24, 2006 Posted June 24, 2006 You did NOT slip...you are having a moment as I like to call it. EVERYONE has momets. WA was right...you will get through this, but don't call him. I'm pretty grateful that my MM rarely call each other. That would make it worse then it already is. One other thing I have going in my favor or maybe not. I don't have e-mail with exMM. He never got into the computer thing, even though his family has. So we don't have that access to each other that way. Probably would've been found out if we did anyway. At least that temptation is taken away from me.
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