maxima888 Posted June 23, 2006 Posted June 23, 2006 I'm going to keep this short. So I dated this girl for a little bit on and off. About 2 1/2 weeks ago I took her to this really romantic place and we kicked if off with the hugging and touching etc. Alright called her the nxt day and no call backs or anythinig in 2 weeks ( btw this happened b4 and other times, she disappears and reappears ) We even had a talk about our relationship and decided it would be exclusive but taking it slowly. But she still does the vanishing act. So after the calls (above) 2x and 1txt msg --no responce I said f*ck it. I've been dating around already and tomorrow I have a new date with another girl I'm interested in. But the original girl calls me tonight 2x leaving me a msg to call her back. I didn't call her back because of her stupid childish actions. btw: tomorrow is her birthday Anyway to end this post should I even bother calling her back just because its her birthday or just forget her even as a friend. Because I can't stand this disappearing act and all of a sudden hits me up to chill or whatever.
paige367 Posted June 23, 2006 Posted June 23, 2006 She seems confused and of course it's very rude to ignore someone and disappear like that. But it is her birthday. You could be a nice guy and just call and wish her a happy birthday. You don't have to make any commitments for future dates or anything. Just have a great birthday and see you later.
Author maxima888 Posted June 23, 2006 Author Posted June 23, 2006 But what if she wants me to go to her party/gathering or whatever. I mean I don't want to blow off my date but before this we did talk about me attending her bday event. *b4 she decides not to return my calls for 2weeks. I was hoping she wouldn't call because I wouldn't be in this situation where I have to decide wth to do. That is why I hate wishy washy people. Either it is or it isn't... On another note I do want to just wish her a happy birthday but I know she would be like why aren't you coming...you said was going to blah blah... I mean c'mon yea I do know in advance its your birthday but give me a break... 2weeks... what am I on call or something? where you hit me up and I'm there...
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