Guest Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 Hi all, Wondering if I can get your opinions and experience/stories. Here's the situation: I have been dating this girl for just about 2 months now. I know I'm falling for her and want something more. So last night we had THE conversation about where we are at and where this relationship is going. To my surprise she says that she is looking for something casual. She apologized for not mentioning this earlier and wasn't expecting to meet someone and hit it off so well. She did notice it was starting to get serious and wanted to discuss this. We continued the conversation discussing options, rules, expectations on both of our sides. Should I give this a shot? Should I start to date other people, with the hopes that she will come around? Perhaps meet someone else? Thoughts? Suggestions?
gfto Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 date as many different women as you can until one of them asks you to be exclusive.
AriaIncognito Posted June 23, 2006 Posted June 23, 2006 I have to agree with the above poster. I just spent 5 months with someone who didn't want anything serious, and now am left broken hearted. Find onee that wants what you want. Jennifer
Guest Posted June 25, 2006 Posted June 25, 2006 You'll never be happy in this situation. I have never been with a guy (who wants something more casual) work out. If you can handle it, see her but date others (and let her know it). Don't give her all your weekends and free time. If you can't handle it and know you deserve somethig serious, thank her for her time but tell her a casual relationship is just not what you're looking for and walk away. This will be hard but you'll save yourself heartache down the road (or she might change her mind with your new found self-respect).
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