RealBroken Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 Just thought I'd write about this, because it has been really nice to recieve. Was talking to an ex through email the other day. I broke up with her 9 years ago! She live on the other side of the world now. She asked how I was. I told her about my recent broken relationship and how confusingly horrible my ex had gone about it. She wrote back and made an APOLOGY about how much of a coward she was when we broke up and that she should have done it better. MY GOD, it felt really good to get it. Even after 9 years and even though we did end up remaining friends. Things would be so much easier i think (for guys anyway) if the girl just didnt lie from the start, told you the whole truths to your face, and apologised IF NEED BE for what she has done, if its not nice to you. Knowing the truth and that they dont want to be horrible to you makes a difference. You dont hurt as much by far. My current just gone ex, i would get over what she had done so much quicker and easier, if she had just told me the truth about what was happening, and said, IM SORRY I NEVER WANTED TO DO THIS TO YOU, BUT ITS WHAT I NEED TO DO. IM SORRY"......... rather than lie lie lie then "f*ck off and dont talk to me, its too hard" and im left not knowing s*** and having to find out from other people. etc
Diver012 Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 Thats good news. Im trying to remember that my current Ex, if shes going to act like that, she can keep trucking. Its hard sometimes cause I miss her, but I better off with someone with a lot more courage than that. So are you.
Author RealBroken Posted June 22, 2006 Author Posted June 22, 2006 Yeah i know. My current ex is only 21....... its an age thing. The ex that apologised..... she was only 19 when we broke up. She's 28 now....... and still feels horrible about it. I guess it gives a little bit of faith. The difference is, when young ....... these girls are emotionally immature, they ARE cowards and CANNOT face you. They are scared of what you'll think of them, they are scared of what other people will think of them, they are scared of what they will think of themselves. Maybe its also that thru inexperience,..... they themselves have not been really truely hurt yet and dont know what it feels like, they dont understand the importance of having some compassion when lettingt someone down. Maybe thats something we should look out for....... haha ha ha....."have you been dumped?" he he There's that feeling of "oh my god how could they do this to me, how could they talk to me like that and act like that after all we've been thru, theres no need for it" You look at them astonished at a human being could be so cruel let alone one that was supposed to love you. HOWEVER, gives me faith in our species when i find out that even after 9 years later there is stil a concience.
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