Guest Posted June 21, 2006 Posted June 21, 2006 I am/was seeing a 19 yr old guy, and I am a few years older. My friends say he is acting normal for his age (wishy-washy, indecisive, etc). We have a lot in common and are very compatible, BUT he is very hesitant to commit. Nothing physical ever happened between us until a few days ago. He didn't want to have an official title of boyfriend/girlfriend, but we would be exclusively seeing each other. We starting doing things, and then after maybe fifteen or twenty minutes he backed off. We have known each other for quite a while and hanging out for many months, so I know they chemistry and attraction are mutual. He said things would be too weird for us, since we work together, and that this doesn't mean nothing could happen in the future. My guess is he freaked out about the commitment end (since we have been attracted to each for a long time). There is no other girl on the horizon, atleast at the moment. Is this kind of behavior normal for a 19 or 20 year old guy (can't make a decision, etc)? While I know it is a highly individualized thing, when do guys normally mature and want a real relationship?
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