wyldflower Posted June 21, 2006 Posted June 21, 2006 Hi all, Thought I'd update every now and then on how it's going. We are still together - almost 8 months now. Have had our ups and downs and little fights but he continues to stand by me. I'll confess that in early days, what with so many unhappy endings in these situations, I was a little nervous when we had our first fight. A part of me wondered if he'd go back to her. But he didn't. He is committed to me and I to him. We have moved from honeymoon phase into a real soul-tied relationship. I mean, before we were tied in terms of feelings and emotions - now we have that deeper bond. I just love my man. Sometimes I think back to when all I wanted was him and how sad we were that we couldn't be together. It seems like a different lifetime. There's truth in that saying about persevering. Ex W is starting to act up a little at the moment. She threatened to "gas" herself and the children if we ever had a bub together. A little concerned there. We do want to have a baby together one day - down the track. He told her it's on the cards in the future and she is having an absolute fit. I expected this sort of thing to happen eventually and we are dealing with it together - as a couple. So that's where this "not supposed to work out" relationship is at. Still in love, still happy and dealing wiht life's hurdles as one.
yesmaybe Posted June 21, 2006 Posted June 21, 2006 Would you give us a quick recap of your history? Thanks!
babydoll_mimi Posted June 21, 2006 Posted June 21, 2006 Please share the rest of your story, because so far your post is giving me some hope for my future w/ MM...
stillafool Posted June 21, 2006 Posted June 21, 2006 Hi all, Thought I'd update every now and then on how it's going. Ex W is starting to act up a little at the moment. She threatened to "gas" herself and the children if we ever had a bub together. A little concerned there. We do want to have a baby together one day - down the track. He told her it's on the cards in the future and she is having an absolute fit. I expected this sort of thing to happen eventually and we are dealing with it together - as a couple. So that's where this "not supposed to work out" relationship is at. Still in love, still happy and dealing wiht life's hurdles as one. Glad things are working out for you guys. I can't believe the exW would threaten her own kids. She should also realize that it's very likely that you will have children together and stop it already. Her actions are really making her look unattractive especially after you guys have been together 8 mos.
bunset Posted June 24, 2006 Posted June 24, 2006 Please share the rest of your story, because so far your post is giving me some hope for my future w/ MM... bdMimi, Be cool.... this is rare, but yes, of course it does happen. Just be aware and try not to fear any outcome. I'm learning that it's that fear that causes our pain and heartache. Have faith that things will work out the way the universe intends it to, not necessarily the way we wish it to. And you do have purpose and your relationship does have meaning. Look for it.
movinon05 Posted June 24, 2006 Posted June 24, 2006 bdMimi, Be cool.... this is rare, but yes, of course it does happen. Just be aware and try not to fear any outcome. I'm learning that it's that fear that causes our pain and heartache. Have faith that things will work out the way the universe intends it to, not necessarily the way we wish it to. And you do have purpose and your relationship does have meaning. Look for it. bunset, I gotta get this book you're reading. Is this from Dyer? What's it called?
RealityCheck Posted June 24, 2006 Posted June 24, 2006 bunset, I gotta get this book you're reading. Is this from Dyer? What's it called? Bunset is a honey bunny! I'm really enjoying her ride! I am totally on the plain! Always have been always will be! :bunny: :bunny:
bunset Posted June 26, 2006 Posted June 26, 2006 bunset, I gotta get this book you're reading. Is this from Dyer? What's it called? Dr. Wayne Dyer The Power of Intention Chapter 12 is specifically about relationships. I was reading it when I checked into a resort on the beach to tryst with my xMM.... So, you asked... and I shall start a new topic, not to interfere with wyldflower's unfolding story... RC, ^^ you too!
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