longlegzs80 Posted June 21, 2006 Posted June 21, 2006 Shy guys seem to be very hard for me to read. I am interested in one and he is shy. I haven't had much response from my other threads of signs he's interested, but what signs show that a SHY GUY is HOT for YOU?????
Author longlegzs80 Posted June 22, 2006 Author Posted June 22, 2006 I don't know. Some days he seems really interested, like last week and some days he is short and brief, gives me my money and goes. Maybe I should just stop going in there. Why does it seem like men have worse mood swings then women? I get the hot and cold response from him. Maybe I should make myself invisible for acouple weeks then reappear and see what I get. Its like I want but can't have him and that makes me want it more. What are some of your suggestions for me as far as should I keep going to that store or should I just give up and move on? Maybe he isn't interested and it was all in my head that he could be interested. Who knows.
paige367 Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 I think your idea about boycotting the boy for a few weeks is a good one. See what the reaction is and then you may know better to move on or keep trying.
Art_Critic Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 watch his eyes when you enter a room.. does he follow you till you sit down.. When you are talking to him where are his eyes ? does he look into your eyes ? If he does.. then he has an interest in you. Watch how he reacts around you..does he get nervous ?
stillhere Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 When i'm interested in a guy, my eyes "smile" i guess you could say. And of course my lips are too!! I hang on every word they say, regardless of what it is.............does he seem interested in the conversation? I look down a lot, trying to avoid eye contact at times, because i'm too busy blushing. Ok, that's a girl thing!
Tenorman Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 From the little you've described I would say he is interested in you. But there is no use all of us trying to guess is there? One thing we do know is that you seem interested in him, so what are you going to do about resolving it? I wouldn't recommend disappearing for two weeks - that's degenerating down to typical old hat game-playing and if he has any depth he'll see it as B.S. Do not ask him out but drop hints that you two should have lunch. If he picks up your hints and invites you to lunch then the real game is on. If he doesn't ask you to lunch then he is either not interested in you or his manhood is not functioning properly at this point in time in which case you should move on.
Author longlegzs80 Posted June 22, 2006 Author Posted June 22, 2006 watch his eyes when you enter a room.. does he follow you till you sit down.. When you are talking to him where are his eyes ? does he look into your eyes ? If he does.. then he has an interest in you. Watch how he reacts around you..does he get nervous ? Yes, I do watch his eyes. His eyes are telling me he is interested. When we talk, he looks into my eyes, which is so hot. When I walk into the store, he faces me looking into my eyes, then down, then up again to my eyes. He is shy though, his voice even sounds shy. He seems like the not so confident guy, because he usually has his head down. But when we do make eye contact it is very nice.
whichwayisup Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 If he has his hands covering the front of his pants, chances are he's into you... Or if he carries something and covers the front of his pants, he's into you... Why not just ask him directly? Or even give him a kiss/hug. See his reaction?
Author longlegzs80 Posted June 22, 2006 Author Posted June 22, 2006 If he has his hands covering the front of his pants, chances are he's into you... Or if he carries something and covers the front of his pants, he's into you... Why not just ask him directly? Or even give him a kiss/hug. See his reaction? I won't ask him directly, that is too too bold for me. Not sure if I can do it for the fear of rejection or just making an ass out of myself. A kiss or a hug would be alittle much, especially when I don't know his name, just know him as the guy who works at this convient store way too much. I'm thinking just do little flirty moves, no kissing or hugging yet. And you brought up something interesting that I always wonder. IF a guy is interested in a women, do they sport a chubby? Hmmm, I'm going to have to keep a lookout if he carries anything infront of him.
stillhere Posted June 23, 2006 Posted June 23, 2006 My honey never got a hard on in the beginning, when we were lusting after each other. Even when i would talk dirty to him. But now, just the sound of my voice, seeing my tire tracks in the dirt (i don't understand either!), seeing me walk by, instant hard on. I'm only speaking for him, so i don't know if they really do get a hard on when they see a girl that's good looking.
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