clamchowderz Posted June 21, 2006 Posted June 21, 2006 today at school I asked a girl out. this girl, we will call her blonde girl and i were in the same english class last quarter and talked once but seemed to have hit it off. well since that class ended ive seen her around campus. we always pass by each other saying hi or hey but this time i decieded to be spontaneous and ask her out. she told me that she didnt have a boyfriend and that she was going to be "cramming for finals next week and after finals is going to hawaii for two weeks." immeditaly i knew i had failed. although in the end i did get a number i felt like this girl was only trying be nice. did i mess up? should i call her on friday? note: i barely know this girl. this situation would also fall into the category of "man and women take the same bus to work. barely talk but make frequent eye contact and smiles. one day the men asks the women for a date"
Tony T Posted June 21, 2006 Posted June 21, 2006 If you're smart enough to pass your college's entrance examination, you surely know this girl wouldn't have told you she DIDN'T have a boyfriend and wouldn't have given you her phone number and wouldn't have given you her summer itinerary unless she felt she'd like to hear from you in the future. For Pete's sake, the lady isn't obligated to fashion her entire world so she can be convenient for you to take her out whenever you want. Stop whining, wait for her to get back from her summer activities and ask her out. Be a man! Meanwhile, my guess is you'll run into some other ladies that you may find interesting as well. If they're busy right now, keep them on file. Take them as they come. The world never comes to an end because a female isn't readily available although so many men act that way.
Tony T Posted June 21, 2006 Posted June 21, 2006 you the man TONY T! At least you got that right! HA!
Diver012 Posted June 21, 2006 Posted June 21, 2006 today at school I asked a girl out. this girl, we will call her blonde girl and i were in the same english class last quarter and talked once but seemed to have hit it off. well since that class ended ive seen her around campus. we always pass by each other saying hi or hey but this time i decieded to be spontaneous and ask her out. she told me that she didnt have a boyfriend and that she was going to be "cramming for finals next week and after finals is going to hawaii for two weeks." immeditaly i knew i had failed. although in the end i did get a number i felt like this girl was only trying be nice. did i mess up? should i call her on friday? note: i barely know this girl. this situation would also fall into the category of "man and women take the same bus to work. barely talk but make frequent eye contact and smiles. one day the men asks the women for a date" I used to do this and wrecked myself in the process. Dont dwell over love that never happened. You will miss out on the love that will happen if you just let this go and open your eyes... Keep all your options open, her, the cute blonde in your other class, you will be suprised just how much opportunity awaits you if you know where to look.
Author clamchowderz Posted June 21, 2006 Author Posted June 21, 2006 so do i just wait until she gets back from her trip to call her? obviously i will be playing the field while shes gone. in other words i wouldnt be calling until mid-july i wonder if she would even remember me
Tony T Posted June 21, 2006 Posted June 21, 2006 If she doesn't remember you, refresh her memory. Your worrying about this is going to destroy the experience. NO woman in the world likes a man who goes around awfulizing all day long. You have to learn to chill. There are so many women in the world that if you would just look around instead of obsessing with this one lady you would forget HER. Call her when she gets back and stop your worrying. Otherwise, I will steal her away from you just to shut you up!!! hahaha
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