theantibarbie23 Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 I got a phone call today and if I wasn't in such shock I would of done EVERYTHING different. One of my dad's OW tracked me down somehow... She tells me that I "might" have a half sibling who is sixteen and asked if I wanted to meet her. She told me her daughter was looking forward to meeting me and my family. I told her my dad is no longer with us, apparently she's known this for years. I told her that meeting her was not something that my siblings and I would care to do and she got angry. She said her child has a right to know her family and that she's a part of us?! WTF is wrong with this bitch that she would do this now? My dad has been dead for over ten years! I have no interest in meeting this skank or her child, at all. My dad was a disgusting sex addict that frequented prostitutes and kept girlfriends in the towns he frequented during his buisness trips and ironically, that's what killed him. I knew I'd have half siblings somewhere but I've never cared to know because I'd want thier mother's head on a pike. The whole thing makes me ill. I don't need a reminder of what my family has gone through, nor does anyone else. My mother suffered a nervous breakdown (while VERY pregnant) after D-day when it was pretty certain that she would of contracted AIDS from my dad. We lost everything we owned. We went through years of hell. My mom is still not normal and now I have to worry this nut is going to contact her and send her off the deep end. I was very polite during the conversation because I was in such shock. I wish I could go back in time and blast her. She has some nerve. I don't owe her or her child, a damn thing. I just want to slap her.
Buttaflyy Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 You are absolutely right! I think I'd feel the same way. No one has a right to impose on you. I'm sorry to hear about all that you and your family has gone through. *Hugs* to you!
catgirl1927 Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 Wow. That woman has some serious nerve, doesn't she? That child is NOT a part of your family, and that woman is horrible for even saying that to you! I'm so sorry that happened.
michelangelo Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 She didn't call to be chatty, she called to see if she can fanagle money from your family. She may or may not have a child that may or may not be your father's. I'd be protective of your mom and her assets if I were you.
catgirl1927 Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 She didn't call to be chatty, she called to see if she can fanagle money from your family. She may or may not have a child that may or may not be your father's. I'd be protective of your mom and her assets if I were you. This is a really good point, and more than likely the truth.
Guest Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 She didn't call to be chatty, she called to see if she can fanagle money from your family. She may or may not have a child that may or may not be your father's. I'd be protective of your mom and her assets if I were you. Good luck to her, my mom is destitute and has no assets.
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