reneem17 Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 So I have known/and liked this guys for about 11 years and everytime that we try to start somthing he always runs back to his ex. recently i just got out of a 3 year relationship with my boyfriend got tired of the lies,cheating and abuse and it took me that long to realize it. Me and the guy that i have feelings for got together and hung out for about 3 months now and we both know that we have strong feelings for eachother. He has even told my best friend that him and his ex are completly over and hes gonna try to get with me. We get along wonderful and everyone even tells him and i that we are a good couple. Latley him and his ex have been hanging out again and it just seems that there is something going on between them. I have told him that basically i want him to be honest and if there is anything going on between them or if they are trying to work things out then please let me know so my feelings for him do not get any stronger, but he has yet to say anything to me about it. My parents went outa town in may and he called me one night and was like im coming over and we need to talk about whats going on..and he has been pushing it off since then.. the other night he said the same thing after i told him i want him to be honest and i do not and will not be a rebound chick that if things go wrong with them thats the only time that he comes around to start things up...he said that he wanted to have another talk.. well last saturday we were hanging out with friends at a local bar and we took our friends home and we were driving around and we were getting ready to have our talk about whats going on between us and his ex called him and wanted him to go help her with her car...so whats he do...drops me off and goes running to her.. I am just so confused on whats going on and i need someones advice..... please respond :-(
Art_Critic Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 so whats he do...drops me off and goes running to her.. There is your answer... Your back burner girl until she comes around..Then you are no burner girl while he is trying to get back with her Quit letting him use you.. your answer is in what he just did to you in dropping you off and going to deal with her.. Please tell him to go fu*k himself and find a guy that wants to be around you
Author reneem17 Posted June 20, 2006 Author Posted June 20, 2006 Its just sooo hard because i have liked him for so long..and we both know that there are strong feelings,should i continue to try to have that talk and see if there is really somthing there or just let it be and maybe wait for him to call me and talk to me?
Art_Critic Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 we both know that there are strong feelings I think the feelings are onl;y one way.. he seems to have bigger feeliings for her. You need to ask yourself if you deserve to be treated better than he is willing to treat you.. He is using you. You also need to blow him off for good.. he will always have her under his skin.. even if they breakup and you guys get together it will only be temporary.
Tim'sAngel Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 There is your answer... Your back burner girl until she comes around..Then you are no burner girl while he is trying to get back with her Quit letting him use you.. your answer is in what he just did to you in dropping you off and going to deal with her.. Please tell him to go fu*k himself and find a guy that wants to be around you I agree with this!!
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