Guest Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 I'm 20 and working at home for the summer. A few weeks ago I ran into the younger sister of a guy I used to be friends with a long time ago and haven't seen or cared about in years. I didn't even recognize her at first since she was 11 the last time I saw her and she's 17 now. Big big difference. She suggested we hang out sometime. She seemed a little more interesting than the average high school girl and I didn't have anything better in the works so I said sure. We had fun and we've fooled around a bit since then. Short of giving her a printed card saying "I WILL NOT CALL YOU AFTER I GO BACK TO SCHOOL" I think I've been very upfront about this being a summer thing only. But the stakes are going up now because she's asked about "spending the night" with meaningful emphasis. She made one dismissive reference to having had a crush on me back when. But I think this move is more about keeping up with her friends whose "going all the way" she seems preoccupied with. So what's my obligation here? I don't care what her brother (who's out of town by the way) thinks about it. But if she's picking me to be her first, someone's got to do it, right?
paige367 Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 If you don't have genuine feelings for her then please don't do it. You would be using her and the fact that you're on here asking about it tells me you're not the using type. If you do this, you'll eventually be hurting her. I'm sure she has feelings for you and that she's expecting more that just a summer fling. Look into her eyes when you're talking to her and see if you can have sex with her without your concious speaking to you on some level.
Pantero Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 This is trouble in the making... Feels great now, but it'll bring you tons of headaches later. Keep it in your pants for now. Not to mention a 20 y/o and a 17 y/o doing the nasty in my state is considered statuatory rape...
j.carsey Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 Really? 14 where I live. Anyway looking at the age difference, trivial, no problem there I think. I think it's too simplistic to say that 17 year old girls are too immature to be able to handle somewhat casual sex. Most girls that age have done it, I don't know if they complain in hindsight but it's pretty normal I'll say that much. But I am too a bit disturbed that you suggest you would never call her afterwards? What's the deal with that? You don't have to date her forever, but if you're planning on disappearing like that and never even talking to her, that is too cold man.
BrandonBP Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 wtf? where do you live? LOL, must be in Thailand.
j.carsey Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 Nobody sees my location under the posts? It's Canada. I think the age is being bumped to 16 now.
blue16 Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 Nobody sees my location under the posts? It's Canada. I think the age is being bumped to 16 now. Ya I heard some talk about it being bumped to 16. Don't think it's official yet tho.
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