Mr.P Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 Hi all, I was at a party on Saturday where I met a girl who I'd met a couple of times before, she was very nice and we got on well. She's the daughter of an older friend of mine and I was invited to the party by him (I get on really well with him and see him quite often). Anyhoo, she left before I got to ask her for her number and chances are I may not see her again for many months. I have found her profile on myspace but not sure if this is a good way of making contact! I think it's the only way but just curious as to how it would look from her point of view. Let me know what you think, should I / shouldn't I ?! Cheers!
Tim'sAngel Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 Hunny... lol, I'm sorry that just cracked me up. Why is this even an issue? Of course if you really want to contact her and it is the only way, then why the hell not? ISn't that why people make MySpace accounts to meet other people? I personally would'nt know as I hate MS. But yea, I don't see the harm in it at all. Might be a nice ice breaker.
Author Mr.P Posted June 29, 2006 Author Posted June 29, 2006 Glad you had a laugh out of it! Ok so I did contact her, sent one email back and forth, seemed ok from what I got back from her. (She hasn't replied to my last one though, but it didn't really warrant a reply if I'm honest lol) I want to get her number so I can ask her out, but again asking for her number over myspace is just wrong! It's not right! But it's the only contact I can have with her at the moment! How do I go about doing that ?! I've been thinking about that for a few days now and I can't come up with anything that doesn't make me look like a ....... well..... I dunno lol Surely some of you can understand what I mean!
Guest Posted July 1, 2006 Posted July 1, 2006 No way man! If she has taken the time to write you back and such- just ask her! It's goofy, yes- but at this point you only have a couple of options & I think the myspace way is definitely least creepy. (I mean, are you going to pine away jonesing for her sweet conversation until the NEXT party, or grill friends or others to get the digits?) Seriously, just ask her (after a few polite "what's up?" emails... Interestingly enough- I have a similar problem!!! So, I recognized a guy when I was doing volunteer work for PBS (he's a filmmaker who happens to be a cameraman for work...) Anyway, the guy left b4 I got a chance to ask him out, so the next day I sent a very cordial email that basically says- 1) I'm new to the area, but I teach so if he has any projects he might need help with let me know, 2) Let me know if you have anything going on- I'd love to check out some of your new work AND (drumroll) 3) I don't know if you have a g/f, but here's my number- if you'd like to do something sometime, call me. SO.... like, 15 days go by & I just figure he's not interested when out of the blue I get an email that says- sorry I can't get myspace at work, so I haven't gotten back to you- my number is... Seriously- that's all it said! Not- call me & we'll get a beer or call me I have this project- whatever... So my question is this- should I suck it up & call him to ask him out- should I wait (I mean, I don't want to call him the day after- since he waited 15 days- i don't want to seem desperate.) Also, why do you think he wouldn't call? This is SO weird. Any suggestions? thoughts?
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