theBeast Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 after a session of sex, my girlfriend says she is sore. is there something i'm doing wrong or is she just sensitive?
paige367 Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 Not enough info, Beast. Are you well endowed? Is she small or does she have a small vagina? Is she sore after you've gone at it hard and heavy? Have you tried being slower and gentler? Is she well lubricated during intercourse? Are you taking the time to make her ready for intercourse?
Tim'sAngel Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 after a session of sex, my girlfriend says she is sore. is there something i'm doing wrong or is she just sensitive? Prolly not, unless you are beating her into the bed or maybe the session is lasting hours. How severe is it? I mean is she like crying afterwards, or just making an observation? Try giving us a little more detail and maybe we can better understand your situation. Was she a virgin before? That could have alot to do with it.
Author theBeast Posted June 27, 2006 Author Posted June 27, 2006 Not enough info, Beast. Are you well endowed? Is she small or does she have a small vagina? Is she sore after you've gone at it hard and heavy? Have you tried being slower and gentler? Is she well lubricated during intercourse? Are you taking the time to make her ready for intercourse? fairly endowed, she's not really small. sometimes i go hard and fast only when she asks me too. otherwise i go slow and gentle. she gets very well lubricated. i think maybe i could take a lil more time getting her ready.
norajane Posted June 27, 2006 Posted June 27, 2006 fairly endowed, she's not really small. sometimes i go hard and fast only when she asks me too. otherwise i go slow and gentle. she gets very well lubricated. i think maybe i could take a lil more time getting her ready. Definitely more foreplay, and oral to get her wet. And use lube!!! No matter how wet she is, she can get dry after a little while of thrusting, especially if you are using condoms. Use lube!!!
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted June 27, 2006 Posted June 27, 2006 after a session of sex, my girlfriend says she is sore. is there something i'm doing wrong or is she just sensitive? I was always sore after sex! It wasn't my H's fault; I was small, I think. (The problem went away after I gave birth to my baby. )
Tim'sAngel Posted June 27, 2006 Posted June 27, 2006 I was always sore after sex! It wasn't my H's fault; I was small, I think. (The problem went away after I gave birth to my baby. ) Yea that seems to eliminate any problem with soreness because compared to the agony of childbirth, soreness is a walk in the park. You place soreness in a heart shaped picture frame besides your bed!! (I think I got that off of Will and Grace)
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted June 27, 2006 Posted June 27, 2006 Yea that seems to eliminate any problem with soreness because compared to the agony of childbirth, soreness is a walk in the park. You place soreness in a heart shaped picture frame besides your bed!! (I think I got that off of Will and Grace) Haha! That's a good one! Sex was always uncomfortable for me before I had babies... mostly it was psychological, I think. I just felt so incredible awkward. Now, we have it every night because I enjoy it so much! (Being 33 years old also helps - I've never felt better about my body than now. So TA, you have alot to look foward to! )
Tim'sAngel Posted June 27, 2006 Posted June 27, 2006 Haha! That's a good one! Sex was always uncomfortable for me before I had babies... mostly it was psychological, I think. I just felt so incredible awkward. Now, we have it every night because I enjoy it so much! (Being 33 years old also helps - I've never felt better about my body than now. So TA, you have alot to look foward to! ) I found that sex has been a little uncomfortable after having a baby. Before, it was crazy, not I have to work a little harder to get where I need to be, and it just feels different over all. Not bad, just different. And yes, I am very excited to reach my prime!!
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