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I'm sure my SO has a sexual past with one of our now joint friends

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This is proabably daft, but I'm going to air it anyway and hopefully get some advice.

 

Me and my BF bth have a mutual good friend, his friend originally, and I'm certain they have had a sexual past. Nothing has ever been said so maybe it's just in my head.

 

I really like this girl and she comes over our house most weekends, it would just feel weird if I found out she had f*cked my man in the past & maybe in his/our house, not sure how i would feel about her from then on.

 

Should I ask her/him? do you think they would be honest if something had happened? or would she lie to protect him/her and our freidnship's?

 

help!

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Don't ask her, ask your boyfriend. Just say that you have a feeling that something happened between them before you two got together and you feel you have the right to know because all of you are friends and spending time together.

 

How do they act around eachother? Do you feel like something is going to happen between them if you're not around?

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If you do ask him be prepared for the answer. ;)

 

If you like her you must trust that nothing is going on between them now. It may be hard to realize this if you found out that they were once lovers. Although, it probably shouldn't matter.

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Don't ask her, ask your boyfriend. Just say that you have a feeling that something happened between them before you two got together and you feel you have the right to know because all of you are friends and spending time together.

 

How do they act around eachother? Do you feel like something is going to happen between them if you're not around?

 

No, my BF loves my dearly and I 100% don't think anything would happen, however I do notice the occassional glances, maybe it's just me being paraniod

 

 

I don't think he'd tell me as he maybe would think it would affect our friendship's. I think he would think it's best to let it be. but i feel I have a right to knw if I am forming a good friendship with this girl, I sort of feel like they are talking or know something behind my back, weird and childish of me maybe

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