Tasteslikechicken Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 Ok so I'm taking the adivce of a post in another thread. And posting specifically to get feed back from the ladies on here, but happy to here from blokes if they have valid input. Foreplay vs Intercouse is one of those topics that comes up time and time again and has many differing opinions. Personally I've realised that for women foreplay is very important and that not enough blokes take their time over it. So I'm keen to hear from anyone on here about this subject, particularly from the women. I'm keen to know. The do's and dont's and what from a foreplays perspective really gets you women ticking. PS - this isn't a pervy post. Just interested in getting an adult discussion going so we can hear all the differing views.
paige367 Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 It's all in attention to detail. Finding out what rocks her world and then doing it before you get off.
Tim'sAngel Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 I'm not sure exactly what it is your wanting to know, so I'll just babble a little and hope I answer what ever questions you have from my POV. I've never been one to like foreplay before intercourse, moreso like it in the intermission while after my partner has orgasmed and waiting for round 2. However, I have heard time after time that women need foreplay before intercourse to excite her and loosen her up and ready her. I thought this was bulls*** until I actually experienced foreplay and found that I was much more sensitive and enjoyed sex alot better. Doesn't mean I don't enjoy it without foreplay, but it was alot more enjoyable when I had time to warm up first. Foreplay is also fun when your in a position where you can't have intercourse. It kind of keeps things interesting and also a great buildup before you get a chance for intercourse. I don't believe there are any dos or don'ts for foreplay. I think anythings goes, it just depends on the person's preference. The hottest thing about foreplay is having the your partner tell and show you what exactly to do and where to do it!!
norajane Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 Foreplay starts long before you are even thinking about sex. It's all the little touches and kisses and hugs, as well as the focused time together where you are paying attention only to each other...kind of the warm-up. Get this part wrong (meaning, head straight to the bedroom) and you may never get to the bedroom. Once you've started the kissing and the clothes start coming off, then focus on every inch of her body, stroking, kissing, massaging, touching. I call the rest of it sexplay, not foreplay, because it's not an appetizer for women...it's the real deal. Manual stimulation of her clit, or oral, are often the only ways a woman comes. So, while penetration seems like the main course for guys, it's actually the dessert for women if she's had an orgasm during sexplay. How to touch, oral. Usually a gradual build up is best. Start with very soft, very light touches/licks, and follow her cues to know when to speed up or apply more pressure. Spends lots of time on her clit. If you can find her g-spot, use your fingers to stroke her there as well. Go back and forth from kissing to focusing on her clit, from breasts to clit and back. Best thing is to ask her what feels good, or ask her to tell you when you're doing something that feels good. Every woman is different and likes to be touched in different ways. Have fun.
Author Tasteslikechicken Posted June 20, 2006 Author Posted June 20, 2006 I wasn't personally looking for answer etc for myself I was more interested to hear the feed back as means of understanding the differing points of view and the fact that there seems to be a few posts on here about man hood size and the focus being around that as means of pleasing her. So I thought I would start a convo off so that those that have focused around man hood size and pleasing their women could look at the feed back on here from other women to help them realise that it's not about that in a number of ways... In any event some good feed back.
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