njanirose Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 I have been dating my boyfriend who is in the US army for about 2 years and 6 months. when he was based here our relationship was the best. then last year he went to afhighan.. He went in November and he used to call every week. Then recently two months ago, he would ask me a lot of questions on how i spend my weekend or he will call on friday to find out what i am doing for the weekend. i start joking with him and saying or some man are hard headed or jealousy, then he will be like well why don't you find one who isn't. so he will start an argument for silly things. last week, he mad me angry and i expressed to him how i felt in the email, since when i called him, he did not pick up his phone. i emailed him two more times then he email back and stated leave me alone move on with your life. I was suprised, because he should call me and say that. i emailed him three times to find out how he is and he is not responding to my emails. if i pass a message from the family to call them. he will read the email and call his family but does not even say thanks or acknowledge my email. i really love this guy, i don't whats up with him. any suggestions or thoughts about his behavior???
tearful_soul22 Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 His behavior is really very confusing and to decipher it would probably take quite some time. Have you given it a serious thought of perhaps asking his parents/family/friends about what's going on? I think he's just being insecure being that far away from you and all that or maybe he just lost interest. You should get to the root of this problem before it escalates far deeper as to cause you mental stress and anxiety, and before you get much too involve with him romantically. He seems to be "avoiding" something and let's just hope you don't get hurt much more in the process. Take care and keep us posted.
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