allina Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 Ok LSers, fulfil my curiosity, what are some traits that you want in a potential SO? I'm talking about specifics not just "honest and a good person" I think I'm pretty set on what sort of man I would want as a potential partner. I know that I look for someone who is positive and balanced, I get excited about going to see a band, a show, or whatever, and I want someone with a similar enthusiasm for life. I'm also very drawn to people that have some specific interest/hobby/talent that makes them special and unique, even if it's not a passion that I share. Also, I need a guy that can go party, have a few drinks, get a lil wild, but one that's gonna get trashed and puke on my shoes or one that can't just enjoy a calm night at home. He also has to like my cat What are you guys attracted to? I don't think I have any crazy demands here.
Kengne Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 Hmmm ... I've always been drawn to people who can make me laugh. I've met SEXXY guys as interesting as a bucket of paint, and they did NOTHING for me at all. And then I've met average or regular good-looking guys who were hilarious & drew me to them like flame draws a moth. I'm not sure WHY a sense of humour is so important to me, but I think it has smth to do with the fact that I like to be entertained. Along the same vein... I like guys who can hold an intelligent conversation. Guys with a sense of intellect who like to be challeneged and can challenge me. Guys who can make me think. I admire men who are ambitious, determined, honest, trustworthy and all that good stuff. They need not have any similar interests as me as I believe in opposites attract. I like guys with an adventuresome spirit. Guys who can go with the flow. Guys who are spontaneous. That sums it up! K.
alphamale Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 What are you guys attracted to? large hooters and a 2 to 3 waist-to-hip ratio blonde hair doesn't hurt either...
Lonestar Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 Hot bod, and by that I mean ripped. I like my men very muscular. Hazel eyes usually suck me in, but those guys with the brown puppy dog eyes make me quiver also. Not too smart. I like to be smarter than my men, and of course, a decent size penis. He should have no hair on his chest or back, but plenty on his head. Hair color does not matter, but I don't like grey hair or shaved heads. Red hair on a guy usually doesn't turn me on either. I forgot to mention a nice ass. We all know how much I like ass.
alphamale Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 Hot bod, and by that I mean ripped. I like my men very muscular. Hazel eyes usually suck me in, but those guys with the brown puppy dog eyes make me quiver also. Not too smart. I like to be smarter than my men, and of course, a decent size penis. He should have no hair on his chest or back, but plenty on his head. Well then you probably wouldn't like me LONEY... my bod's like jello, i'm smart, have a 5.7238 inch cock and have oodles of back hair
Lonestar Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 Well then you probably wouldn't like me LONEY... my bod's like jello, i'm smart, have a 5.7238 inch cock and have oodles of back hair nope but we can still be friends
Guitar Wizard Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 Hmm... It's hard to decribe, but I like my girls... bouncy? I guess? You know, they kinda skip and jump and are all around bouncy. A modest chest size is okey, although I really don't care in that area. Strong legs and flexability are always welcome, and I love my girls to have a nice ass, at the very least. Pretty eyes draw me in, usually green, blue... anything light in color. Long hair is always welcome, Im not a big fan of red-heads but Im always willing to try new things. Blondes are my personal favorite. I like smart girls, it makes it that much more Challenging. PS: Wow, my Penis is bigger then Alphamale's, that totally made my day.
alphamale Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 PS: Wow, my Penis is bigger then Alphamale's, that totally made my day. your welcome GW
timidity99 Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 Well for starters I want a woman who is not looking to move in together or get married. Someone who lives her own life and allows me to live mine outside the relationship. Someone who does not expect me to put her first and someone who will not put me first. I'm not attracted to clingy women. I'm not really picky about her looks or educational background. It would be nice to find a girl that I can count on to be there for me during trials & tribulations of life but I think that's almost unrealistic expectation. I want a girl who will ask permission before she kisses me the first time. I usually wait for a woman to make the first kiss.
Author allina Posted June 19, 2006 Author Posted June 19, 2006 Some of you guys are SHALLOW awwww, thats too bad. Also, I really need my guy to be at least a little nerdy
Walk Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 Someone who does not expect me to put her first and someone who will not put me first. It would be nice to find a girl that I can count on to be there for me during trials & tribulations of life but I think that's almost unrealistic expectation. I'm curious how these two ideas can work together? If I dont' put my SO first, then I probably won't be "there" for him during his trials and tribulations. I'm first if he's not, and if we both had a bad day, then MY bad day is resolved first. Not his. So I'm curious how you view this? I don't see how these two divergent concepts can be in the same relationship. Maybe you mean you just want someone who isn't going to blow a nut every time you want to spend some time on your own? Or go out with the guys without taking her?
AussieChick Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 Intelligent, funny, witty, loyal, music freak, tv junkie, book mad, movie mad, romantic, animal lover, lie on the beach at night and star gaze - not that fussy really . He also has to be able to cope with me and my many personalities (not an easy feat... ) - so I guess that means I have to add patience to the list! Looks aren't really up there, he has to be someone that is comfortable to be with, someone I can talk to about anything...but a little eye candy wouldn't hurt... Are you there??
Walk Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 My "perfect" SO: He has to be able to see the irony in life and be able to laugh at it.Be able to laugh at his own mistakes and follies.Loves to learn, for self-growth, not to show off.Has to have a strong curiousity in what makes others tick.Ability to find fun in most any situation.Open minded, but has strong core beliefs.Strength of character. Determination, drive to accomplish whatever he's decided he wants/needs. Even if that's just to work at McD's. He's gotta show inner fortitude coming out his wazoo.Non-materialistic.Not frivolous with money. Doesn't have to have money, but responsible in paying his debts, and being able to not spend it when he doesn't have it.Non-religious.Most important, if he makes a promise it has to be kept. No matter what. The only thing that can break it is death.Straight forward, ability to be bluntly honest, and no game playing. I don't care what a person looks like, or how much money they have. Social economic background doesn't matter. I really don't want a guy who has bigger breasts then me, but other than that I'm not too picky.
Sapiens Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 I really need my guy to be at least a little nerdy Dede, what's up with this? A lot of smoking hot babes always claim to like nerdy types of guys? What is it about them???? -Sapiens
alphamale Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 A lot of smoking hot babes always claim to like nerdy types of guys? What is it about them???? The only time I see smokin' hot babes with nerds is if he has lots of ca$h.
Sapiens Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 The only time I see smokin' hot babes with nerds is if he has lots of ca$h. I didn't say they go out with them. LOL! -Sapiens
Author allina Posted June 19, 2006 Author Posted June 19, 2006 The only time I see smokin' hot babes with nerds is if he has lots of ca$h. Bulls*** And by nerdy I don't mean pants up around his chest, acne and, socially awkward, but I love slightly geeky characteristics. And I don't need my guy to have a ton of money, I have my own
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