LN8840K Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 " I have to play hard to get with you " this has happened to have been said to me by a few different women any ideas ?
Kengne Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 " I have to play hard to get with you " this has happened to have been said to me by a few different women any ideas ? People value what they work hard for, more than they value things that drop easily into their lap... or their bed. That's what the women mean. They feel they have to play hard to get, so that when they eventually do capitulate you will value them more than if they just wore their heart on their sleeve and gave themselves quickly to you. K.
whichwayisup Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 " I have to play hard to get with you " this has happened to have been said to me by a few different women any ideas ? This is the same logic that men use on women too. To keep them interested and on their toes. Plain and simple. The game of cat and mouse...
Outcast Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 Sigh. What's wrong with someone liking you right off the bat? Half the posts on LS are about people being insecure. If people would quit playing these bogus games, life'd go so much easier for so many.
Pyro Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 Sigh. What's wrong with someone liking you right off the bat? Half the posts on LS are about people being insecure. If people would quit playing these bogus games, life'd go so much easier for so many. I agree. Games are not needed to start or maintain a healthy relationship. Woman and men don't let their guards up right away, or at least they shouldn't. You should really get to know the person before you let the guard down and let the feelings get involved. Perhaps the real meaning of someone playing hard to get is someone who is not easy.
SmoochieFace Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 Anyone who says such a thing to me would be instantly written off. I have no time and patience for those silly games. I'll take a secure woman any day over game players.
Guest Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 Play hard to get? What is this 7th grade? When a woman tells me that I must "play hard to get" to be with her I make sure I drop her like a rock and fast. These are the type of woman who are home alone most of the time unless there with some looser guy riding around in his 1973 chevy vega smokin weed.
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