Maria33 Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 I am new to dating and I have some questions. I have been reading a lot of things on different websites concerning how body language lets the other person know that you are interested in them. Some of the things that seem to be universal are eye contact, facing the other person, touching the person while you are talking to them, and acting very interested in what the other person is saying. Is it really possible to know that someone is romantically interested in you by observing their body language? How do you know that they aren't just flirting with you for the fun of it? Is it possible to let them know you are interested by using your body language when you are flirting with the person? It just seems so vague, I don't see how you can really know for sure. Any ideas? I am interested in someone and want him to know that. By reading about body language I realized that I have definately been acting interested in him. But, I'm not ready to verbalize it to him yet. I am trying to read his clues and figure out if he's interested too. From the way he flirts and his body language it would seem that he is interested. It is possible that someone that we both know has already told him that I am interested in him, but I don't know that for sure yet. He seems kind of shy like I am too. If I can decide that he probably is interested in me, I want to ask him to go to the movies with me or something like that. I even thought of sending him an e-mail invitation instead of a face to face one. I thought this would be easier for me and an easier way out for him too if he isn't interested. Does that seem really lame? By the way, I am not a youngster. I have been out of the dating scene though since I was a teenager. I just don't want to embarrass myself by asking someone out who has no interest in me. Guys help me out with this one too, please. Would you go on a date with someone who you were a little interested in, if they asked you out?
Outcast Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 Isn't it the saddest thing in the world that people are terrified of confessing they like someone but someone will tell you to eat shxt and die with no worry at all?
phyrespryte Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 DON'T EMAIL HIM! Please don't do that. It's so much more stressful. Imagine never receiving a response and not knowing if it was because he never got it or he wasn't interested. Not fun. I say screw body language. If you're flirting with each other and you're both single... Then ask him out.
Mary3 Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 DON'T EMAIL HIM! Please don't do that. It's so much more stressful. Imagine never receiving a response and not knowing if it was because he never got it or he wasn't interested. Not fun. I say screw body language. If you're flirting with each other and you're both single... Then ask him out. Right On Advice !
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