Author pricillia Posted June 18, 2006 Author Posted June 18, 2006 Well, that does muddy the water a bit. Still, this new guy has you at a terrible disadvantage. You want to be with him. He doesn't want to be with you, but he doesn't want to let you go either. Does that sound fair to you? I still vote for giving him the boot, at least for now. JMHO He said that I know the way he feels about me but he said that someone in his family is dying and I should be more understanding... and yes the MM does muddy things more than a bit... I am so confused...
Outcast Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 Oh come ON people!!!!!! He's got a SON who was in a fight at school. And a dying grandmother!!! This is NOT about the poster. Boy I hate double standards. Now if this was her dying grandmother and she broke a date, you'd all be patting her and comforting her but god forbid a MAN should be sad about a dying grandmother or have to put his CHILD first!!!! Honestly. Poster, you are spending too much time worrying about what HE should do for YOU and not the other way around. Do him a favour and tell him to find someone unselfish who'll offer some care and concern rather than lectures when he cares for his own family.
Author pricillia Posted June 18, 2006 Author Posted June 18, 2006 advice from other people outside of love shack some say dump him and some say give him some leeway???
Author pricillia Posted June 18, 2006 Author Posted June 18, 2006 Oh come ON people!!!!!! He's got a SON who was in a fight at school. And a dying grandmother!!! This is NOT about the poster. Boy I hate double standards. Now if this was her dying grandmother and she broke a date, you'd all be patting her and comforting her but god forbid a MAN should be sad about a dying grandmother or have to put his CHILD first!!!! Honestly. Poster, you are spending too much time worrying about what HE should do for YOU and not the other way around. Do him a favour and tell him to find someone unselfish who'll offer some care and concern rather than lectures when he cares for his own family. um oucast I have been very sensitive to all of his issues and problems have been there for him and have been patient with him, listened to his story about how his father used to beat him and was totally supportive, have understood about broken dates and non returned calls, I am not saying that he is not telling the truth and my heart goes out to him about his grandmother, however I have not been to his house yet it is like he does not want me there and I am trying to get to the bottom of it, he tells me that he loves me but not ready to open up all the way... not sure why I just lost my mother to lung cancer and around that time he asked me on a date I was going to cancel but thought that spending time with him would be good medicine, I thought that I could do the same for him. There is no double standard here and I am not shelfish at all, I have done allot for him! so for you to say that is your opinion but you are wrong! I have strong feelings for him where I would do almost anything for this man however I do not want to be a fool either... understand???
Author pricillia Posted June 18, 2006 Author Posted June 18, 2006 Ok so it is Fathers day, I know his family is not local, I go out and buy him flowers for Fathers day, were delivered at work, He called me to thank me but said it would have been nice if I brought them myself??? Should I take this as a compliment or him just being really picky???
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