clamchowderz Posted June 17, 2006 Posted June 17, 2006 how do you guys feel about an ex leaving a rose outside your door (exboy to exgirl) to respectably acknowledge what would have been a 3 year anniversary.
Pink Amulet Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 Don't do it. I get roses every week from my ex. I just throw them out. I don't need that reminder. I have messaged him to stop and he won't. Clam- in your case. It is a dangerous and could be perceived as cruel intention on your part. Regardless of who broke up with who, and when it was, I am sure it will only serve as a painful reminder of what you once had. It didn't work out for a reason. IMO leave it at that.
amaysngrace Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 Don't do it. I second that. There is nothing worse than getting flowers from someone you don't want to get flowers from. It's just plain annoying.
Tim'sAngel Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 I would think this was your corny way of trying to get me back or get me to remember the good ole days. If that is the message you are trying to deliver, then by all means do so!! If not, then I suggest not.
RealBroken Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 Dont do it man. If you want her back, make out you dont care anymore. If she does feel anything for you still, then not gettin anything for what would be an anniversary would work better in your favour,......... than her gettin something. Push pull theory. Giving flowers is pushing, she'll pull away. Forgetting or acting like u dont care,... is pulling away......... if its not what she wants, then she may push towards you again. If SHE doesnt care either way, it wont hurt you un-necessarily.
daphne Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 If she broke up with you, definitely don't do it. You will push her away and have the opposite effect than what you're looking for. If you broke up, I think it would be a good thing. But my guess is that that's not the case. My ex dropped off a single red rose when we first broke up. I broke up with him but he was at fault so I did take him back the first time. But it's a very different situation.
gfto Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 how do you guys feel about an ex leaving a rose outside your door (exboy to exgirl) to respectably acknowledge what would have been a 3 year anniversary. Terrible idea. It's simply groveling and begging.
sirjay Posted June 18, 2006 Posted June 18, 2006 NO!!!!! She will definitely think of you on your anniversary anyway. Let her stew in silence from you. That will have way, way more impact. Absolutely do not give her a rose. Buy yourself a treat with the money you save.
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