greyskies Posted June 17, 2006 Posted June 17, 2006 I Have A Roomate Who Has No Family Because Her Mom And Grandmother Past A Couple Of Years A Go And Thats Basically Why We Became Good Friends. Because I Knew She Didnt Have Anyone I Told Her I Will Always Be Her Family. Well I Do Have Family A Huge One And When Ever My Daughters Want To Come See Me On The Week-end She Throws A Major Fit And Talks Major Crap About My Kids And I Get So Upset I Could Almost Break Something But Instead I Just Cry Because She Is So Selfish. Today My Daughter Was Going To Be Dropped Off Here For A Few Minutes While I Got Ready And We Were Gonna Go Out For The Day. And She Flipped Out We Both Pay Rent Here And I Feel When It Comes To My Kids She Should Always Welcome Them. Shes Suppose To Be My Best Friend. I Took Care Of Her Grandmother Until She Past Away And When Her Mom Died I Packed Her House For Her Because She Couldnt Handle It. I Have Supported Her Through Out The Years Emotionally And She Has Always Helped Me Too. I Understand She Wanted To Have A Peaceful Week-end And My Daughter And I Were Only Going To Be Here For A Short Period Of Time. Then I Called My Daughter And Told Her Not To Come That I Would Come And Get Her. Then My Roomate Hid The Keys To My Car From Me. She Wanted Me To Say She Was Right For Not Wanting My Kid Here. And Then She Would Let Me Have The Keys. I Refused Because I Cant Keep Allowing Her To Run My Life . What Should I Do Any Ideas????
GrassSkirtGirl Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 WOW I would stand up to her for sure. She id dogging your daughter and I don't care what you said to her about being family, she is WRONG!!!! And selfish- your daughter should come first!
norajane Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 Your roommate is wrong, wrong, wrong. You have every right to have your daughters at your place - you can have anyone over that you want! It's your place, too. And the business with the keys is messed up. She doesn't sound like a good friend at all.
Buttaflyy Posted June 25, 2006 Posted June 25, 2006 Not only is your roomate wrong, but her actions are pretty psychotic! Hiding your keys and keeping you from meeting your daughter is plain ridiculous! She should not have such a hold over you. And it sounds like she's to dependent upon you. You may want to try and convince her to seek some counseling. Because she doesn't have any family does not mean that you are indebted to her. Your children come first before anyone in life. Before anyone that you know now or anyone you should meet later on. If they don't accept and respect your children they should not be in your life either. You need to have a serious talk with this girl. Let her know that you will not accept anyone who doesn't accept your kids. Sounds like you've been a good friend to her. How good of a friend is she if she doesn't accept your kids and makes you feel bad?
RecordProducer Posted June 25, 2006 Posted June 25, 2006 She sounds like a total psychopath! Are you sure you're just friends? Are you a student? Why doesn't your daughter live with you? If I were you, I would move out or ask her to leave the place (whichever is quicker). She is bad news if she is against your child. If someone is my children's enemy - he is my enemy also.
binevrywear Posted June 25, 2006 Posted June 25, 2006 I Have No Idea Why You Posted Like This. Wasn't It A Pain To Always Hit The Caps Or Can You Set Your Keyboard Like This? Either Way, It Is Rill Hard Ta Read.
Author greyskies Posted July 23, 2006 Author Posted July 23, 2006 Sorry I was prolly so upset I didnt realize it. Wont happen again.
Buttaflyy Posted July 25, 2006 Posted July 25, 2006 Please update us if you get a chance. I hope your situation is better now. Best Wishes, Buttaflyy
Zeeboo Zebuloo Posted July 31, 2006 Posted July 31, 2006 Sounds like a toxic friendship to me, hon. You can't save everyone...nor should you try. It's not your responsibility to improve this woman's quality of life. Afterall-she's an adult. A JUVENILE adult...but an adult none the less. You have an obligation to your children and that's it. Everyone else comes second, third, forth...etc. The way I see it? There are millions of people that you DON'T talk to on this earth-just make her another one of them and you'll be fine...
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