Guest Posted June 17, 2006 Posted June 17, 2006 I met this guy at work. he is not my boss, but I work with him a lot on projects.... and He is 12 years older than I am and we are both married.... the whole thing started when he went on a busines trip to Italy.. He imed me and told me he is all alone, and I am not there (I speak italian)....I thought that was cute... then he came back and gave me (only me) a label from a beer bottle that was a local brew from a town where I was born.... That was so sweet, i thought.... Then I went to Italy on buisness, he called me at 6am his time to check in to see if I was checked in the hotel.... I was so touched by his kindness.... I am buying him coffee and lunches whenever I get one.....because I started to like him..... Then one time, he tickled my feet.... and he did it again a few days later... I put my feet on his chair between his legs..... instead of telling me that I am out of line.. he actually moved his chair forward and continued our conversation.... one time at the parking lot, I took his car keys away and won't give back to him, then he took my car keys and put in his front jean pocket... I have to put my hand in and fish it out.... I talked him quite a lot, espeically on the way home and i would call him or he would just call me and we talk about work and about nothing.... we finally took a business trip together earlier this year... he really took care of me (like carry my bag at all times....).... I was in his hotel rooms twice after midnight.... i did give him a back massage.. that's all... then he said he is going to take a shower and I just left his room.... I don't know what is going on.... I can't keep him out of my mind.... I felt like he likes me more than just a someone he works with...... What does he want? I am trying to resign my job and get his behind me.. but I can't.. I think I might be in love with him... What do I do?
newbby Posted June 19, 2006 Posted June 19, 2006 get over him. many (inc my ex) start off this way. he will be madly infatuated with you, and very determined, until a while into the a. then you will be very emotionally entangled and it will be hard to get out. he knows how to play the love game, to get you to fall for him. tell him he had better stop this behaviour unless he is serious, and by serious you mean single. dont be scared of pushing him away, if he is that easily pushed away then he is not genuine.
Guest Posted June 20, 2006 Posted June 20, 2006 get over him. many (inc my ex) start off this way. he will be madly infatuated with you, and very determined, until a while into the a. then you will be very emotionally entangled and it will be hard to get out. he knows how to play the love game, to get you to fall for him. tell him he had better stop this behaviour unless he is serious, and by serious you mean single. dont be scared of pushing him away, if he is that easily pushed away then he is not genuine. i really thought he just being nice to me and being playful at intially. then I felt different about all the things we do...... it is weired because between two co-workers and what we do does not qualify as a causal thing, right? Anyhow, you are so right.... I am so emtionally entangled that I want him so bad... not physically, but emotionally..... That feeling sucks....
newbby Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 yes i know, but if you give in, it will get far worse. trust.
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