The slayer Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 I have to completely agree with Pink here. This is more than wisdom, it's the truth. Unless you can believe and agree with her too, you're never going to stop hurting.
debs Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 Repeat after me Imperial..... I am in denial. Reality is she is gone and there is no we! You may work with her at the same place but I see the writing on the wall! Sorry hun she is not coming back! Take this from a wise old lady! Never waste time on someone who isn't willing to waste time on you! Please don't make more of a fool out of yourself with the over kill! This is the case of a day late and a dollar short! Take our advice on LS! We all have been down this road. Take our hand and let us help and guide you! 2nd chances in the long run when dating do not work out favorably!
Author imperialpilotx Posted June 22, 2006 Author Posted June 22, 2006 well its like the doctor said who worked on my toe.. just move on and that im a high commodity so I shouldnt worry. I'm 20, I have a job, a red sports car, im single and generally a nice guy ha. so, I mean im ripe for the picking. its just my main goal has always been to aquire knowledge, so im very emotional about these things because I think way too much..
Diver012 Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 I don't agree. You still want her. That's a choice. You DON'T need her. That isn't a choice, it is a damn reality?! We're you not a member of our society before you met her? Capable of keeping down a job, and for that matter keeping down food? If so, and if you still have a job, and you are still eating, and essentially living you don't need her. Humans do not need much to survive. Physically and emotionally. To say "I can't live without her" is a lie. We adapt, resign yourself to the fact that you will adapt and you will stop loving her sooner or later, and you will be fine. I think were saying the same thing in different ways...
Pink Amulet Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 Yes, I think so. I didn't mean to be so argumentative *hugs*
Author imperialpilotx Posted June 22, 2006 Author Posted June 22, 2006 ha pink amulet- my aim name = imperialpilotx way to live in australia though maybe ill be like danny deckchair and float over here my new words of wisdom. " If you love someone, set them free. If they come back to you set them on fire" - George Carlin.
Pink Amulet Posted June 22, 2006 Posted June 22, 2006 LOL why have you seen Danny Deckchair?!?!?!?!?! *shakes head* what a peice of crap that was! I don't even know what aim is either
Author imperialpilotx Posted June 22, 2006 Author Posted June 22, 2006 it was ok.. i didnt watch all of it though i believe aol instant messenger (aim) is a global phenomenon.. i guess not. you probably have yahoo or something lamo
Author imperialpilotx Posted June 24, 2006 Author Posted June 24, 2006 why is she calling me.. she says just to say "hello".. and then when i get into the whole.. why do you want to be friends, its kind of hard.. she just plays it off like okay fine.. its like were both trying to play the "indifference" game ? so she basically said bye. I called back and was like i apologize, for acting mean, but ill talk to you late.r. and shes just like bye. why the f*** did she call me in the first place ? what is this game ? she also did a "no call no show" at work today.. then decides to call me.. anyone know what shes thinking ? but i played it semi cool.. just acted indifferent, but slightly angry and disliking her i dunno. whatever f*** it. lots of fish in the sea.
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