Diver012 Posted June 17, 2006 Posted June 17, 2006 Well teh day sucked... but thats ok. I went golfing after work. That was fun. I hadnt done that since last year. I was still a bit down though but shrugged it off. Then I was invited out to dinner with some friends. We went to a really cool spot. Lots of chicks, a band playing outside, good food. I had a blast. I realized something... My EX was so freakin negative. Tonight was the first night I felt like I was around positive people. Nobody bitching about work, or family, or co-workers, or blah blah blah.... It was a good night... cause I learned something.... I like surrounding myself with positive people.
Pyro Posted June 17, 2006 Posted June 17, 2006 Well teh day sucked... but thats ok. I went golfing after work. That was fun. I hadnt done that since last year. I was still a bit down though but shrugged it off. Then I was invited out to dinner with some friends. We went to a really cool spot. Lots of chicks, a band playing outside, good food. I had a blast. I realized something... My EX was so freakin negative. Tonight was the first night I felt like I was around positive people. Nobody bitching about work, or family, or co-workers, or blah blah blah.... It was a good night... cause I learned something.... I like surrounding myself with positive people. This is the only way to get over an ex. Go out and keep yourself busy and see for yourself that life does get better after a breakup.
the_alchemyst Posted June 17, 2006 Posted June 17, 2006 I'm glad you had a good night, Diver. I had a similar night last Friday: I went out with a friend to a bistro. There was a little band playing inside, and the Italian food was absolutely delicious! We had a few martinis and we just talked for a really long time--it was really fun. Unfortunately for me, my exbf called me as soon as I got home, and the night was ruined. Bastard. Like you, I also enjoy being around people who are positive; they give off great vibes. BUT, sometimes I think that it is easier to be positive around people whom you don't see often. Like with my friend: I hadn't seen her in months, and there was no peep about anything sad. We just caught up and everything was fun and happy, but I think this is because being negative just didn't fit in the picture. I know what with my exbf I used to bitch about bad stuff--but that was because I was comfortable enough with him to tell him the good and the bad. But maybe I'm just crazy. Just enjoy these good times--little by little you'll make nice, fun, and happy memories that don't involve your exgf. They are ghosts that are haunting our minds, and they need to be banished.
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