chichi Posted June 16, 2006 Posted June 16, 2006 Well As You All May Know I Have Been Going Through Difficult Times With This Breakup Im Dealing With So Here Is The Latest Tell Me What You Think. Me And My Bf Broke Up March And Havent Much Talked Since But A Few Times To Return Our Things, Everything Has Always Been Freindly We Still Get Along Very Well. Well Wednesday I Had Sent Him A Text Message To See How Things Were With Him Because I Hadnt Talked To Him In About 2 Months Well I Sent The Text....and After I Sent It He Called Me...surprised! So We Ended Up Talking For About A Hour About Everything That Had Been Going On In Our Lives I Didnt Feel The Need To Talk About The Relationship Because Im Trying To Play Like I Dont Care So Much Even Though I Wanted To Just Tell Him I Love Him And Miss Him So Much. He Began To Tell Me How He Was Dating This Girl And She Was A Complete Physco....he Told Me Why Couldnt She Be Like You You Were Never Like That...i Just Laughed And Said Cause Im One Of A Kind. Well He Invited Me To Dinner And I Accepted Because I Hadnt Seen Him In So Long That I Really Wanted To See Him. So Yesterday I Call Him When I Get Off Work And Told Him I Was On My Way Up To Miami And Where Did He Want To Meet...he Told Me He Would Rather Just Cook For Me So I Met Him At His House And We Had A Wonderful Time Together. We Laughed And Talked About Everything And There Was Never A Dull Moment The Whole Night. About 2 Hours Later We Started Playing Footsie And I Ended Up On Top Of Him We Had The Most Amazing Sex Ever Very Very Passionate Not Just Sex And Then We Took A Shower Together And He Washed Me...aww! After The Dinner, Sex, And Shower I Decided To Go Home Because I Had To Work In The Morning, He Waled Me To My Car And Kissed Me And Told Me To Take Care, About A Hour Later He Called Me To Make Sure That I Got Home Safe Because I Live A Hour Away. My Question Is How Do I Know If He Still Cares, Or If He Wants To Be With Me? I Am Trying Not To Ask Him These Questions Because I Dont Want To Scare Him Away...i Want Him So Much But I Will Wait Until He Calls Me.....what Do I Do About This...the Way He Was Acting Last Night Was That He Missed Me!!
overseas2004 Posted June 16, 2006 Posted June 16, 2006 It looks good but you have to be careful. You dont know what is going to happen now. Use all your strength to play it cool. You guys may very well be on your way to making up. Can you tell me why you broke up?
Author chichi Posted June 16, 2006 Author Posted June 16, 2006 We Were Together For About 4 1/2 Months And Everything Was Perfect And Then He Said That He Fle Tlike He Just Needed To Be Alone For A While Which Was Fine With Me Because I Understand When Poeple Just Need Some Space. Our Relationship Was Good We Never Fought And We Had The Best Time Together. I Didnt Call Him Because I Didnt Want To Push Him Away But I Havent Be Able To Move On Because Im Still In Love With Him. His Brother Has Been Telling Me Latly That He Had Been Asking Baout Me And Wanting To Know I Was. His Brother Also Told Me That Every Girl He Had Been With He Has Been Saying Why Cant She Be More Like "chichi". I Dont Know
Pink Amulet Posted June 16, 2006 Posted June 16, 2006 I think he misses you as much as you miss him. Sometimes, when a man says he needs a break , when evidently everything seems to be going well it means he wants to look around. He is probably being 100% honest when he said "I wish she was more like... [you]". My question is why would he want HER to be more like YOU when he can have you? It sounds like everything was going well and he realised this and became frightened that if things kept going the way they were that he might find himself in too deep a.k.a all encompassing love! P.S I noticed you use captials at the start of every word. It seems like a a lot of unnecessary hard work! You should try to break this very nasty habbit. Just my two cents.
Author chichi Posted June 16, 2006 Author Posted June 16, 2006 Thank You For The Advice, I Just Write All In Capitals And Then When I Post It, It Changes It Like That....he Just Said That When He Was With Her He Would Think About It And Be Like Damn I Wish She Would Have Been More Like You. So How Should I Approach This Situation Should I Not Call Him For A Couple Days Because The Thing Is Is That He Is Going Out Of Town For Three Days And Then His Mom Comes Into Town For 3 Weeks I Dont Think I Should Call Him While His Mom Is Here Because He Hasnt Seen Her In About A Year And A Half But Three Weeks Is A Long Time Not To Talk To Him So In A Couple Days Should I Just Give Him A Text Or Call Just To See How Things Are Going Or Just Wait Until He Calls Me???
overseas2004 Posted June 16, 2006 Posted June 16, 2006 NO He broke up with you. You should leave the perfect evening the perfect evening it was. And although this may hurt you, he has to initiate the contact if he wants to see you again. Otherwise you will become undesirable. TRUST ME. Been there done that.
BrandonBP Posted June 16, 2006 Posted June 16, 2006 My question is why would he want HER to be more like YOU when he can have you? It sounds like a halfass way of saying "I want you" without having to actually say "I want you." NO He broke up with you. You should leave the perfect evening the perfect evening it was. And although this may hurt you, he has to initiate the contact if he wants to see you again. Agreed. If he was just on a booty mission, then the best way to find out is to see how long it takes him to call again. If he waits a week, then he just wants more bedroom action.
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